Estelle Monique Gilberte Burdeyron

In Loving Memory

Estelle Monique Gilberte Burdeyron

Born
30 June 1931
Passed
6 May 2024
Lived In
London
Heather & Daniel wish to extend deep gratitude to all, for the prayers, support, comforting messages, calls, and cards during this time.

Estelle Monique Gilberte's Life Story

Born
30 June 1931
Passed
6 May 2024
Lived In
London
Estelle died peacefully at Charing Cross Hospital on Monday, May 6th following a brief illness. She is preceded in death by her mother Jeanne, father Noel, sister Sabine, and nephew Mark. Remaining to continue her legacy are her niece Heather, nephew-in-law Daniel, and godson Anthony. Estelle was born in 1931 at the Royal Free Hospital, London. Her mother Jeanne was French and her father Noel half French half Swiss, was born in the UK. Noel was head waiter at the Dorchester, and Jeanne was wife and mother. The family home was in Cricklewood. Her lifelong love for the outdoors and gardens came from this home. During her childhood, she remembers sharing the home with tortoises, a rabbit, cats, and a wired-haired fox terrier. Estelle attended St. Helen's school Cricklewood. She loved to write and would use any surface available - including the soles of her shoes! There were happy times. 1939, war was pending, and her father joined the French army. Knowing that London would be bombed Noel arranged for the family to move to Deauville in Normandy. Jeanne found work as a manageress in a luxury handbag and jewelry shop. They were fortunate to be offered a ‘home’ in a room at the back of the shop. Estelle was 8 years old and remembered how difficult it was to get used to cooking, washing, and sleeping all in one room. This was the new normal and for months they heard nothing of her father Noel. In May 1940 with the Germans drawing closer Jeanne decided it was time to run for England. She acquired a pick-up truck and off they went. En-route in what Estelle described as a ‘big adventure,’ they picked up various people, some cleaner than others. They combed lice from their hair and slept in barns and stables with horses, donkeys, and rats. They washed in animal water troughs and slept on itchy, dusty hay. They were eventually encircled by Germans and turned back; the adventure was over. They returned to the shop and remained there for the rest of the war. Estelle spoke fluent English but was forbidden to speak it for fear of being overheard by the German soldiers and arrested. At the end of 1940, a letter from the Red Cross confirmed that Noel had been wounded in Dunkirk and repatriated to England. In 1941 Noel joined the British Army, the SOE (Special Operations Executive), and was parachuted into Normandy. He was separated from his fellow officers and decided to join his family. Estelle was surprised and thrilled. There was a German notice posted in the village “Any family found harboring allied forces would be shot along with soldier, sailor or airman”. They moved to the country to stay with friends. Networking continued as Noel and Jeanne recruited for the SOE and gathered vital intelligence to send back to England. At this time Estelle attended a Catholic school in Trouville where she loved to tutor fellow students in English. 1942 brought devastating news, a telegram informing that her father had been arrested along with two others, they were held accused of being spies, and they were held in a prison in Fresnes outside Paris. Jeanne was granted a travel permit and together they visited. They were informed that the crimes were punishable by death, and this was their opportunity to say goodbye. Estelle recalled the painful images of a man who’d obviously been tortured, his weight loss dramatic. Noel negotiated a ‘deal’, escaped death, only to be sent as a prisoner at Colditz Castle where he remained until the end of the war. Although a child Estelle played a vital part in the Resistance. She’d talk of the secret messages written on toilet paper that she’d courier hidden in her hair, of interactions with the Gestapo and constantly having to be aware of her surroundings. Every knock on the door posed the question of a friend – postman or foe – Gestapo. They would often shelter Polish and Jewish personnel, hiding them in attics and their rifles in gardens. Estelle would talk of the friends she lost with sadness in her eyes. Canadian Forces arrived, Estelle, now 13 became an interpreter at the town hall. The Americans joined the Canadians and with them came luxuries, oranges, chocolate, eggs, and huge tins of corned beef! 1945 and liberation came, Noel returned home, the family returned to England and settled in Shepherds Bush. Estelle won a scholarship to the French Lycee School in South Kensington. After school, she worked in a car showroom in Victoria. She relayed tales of working overtime on a Saturday evening, she’d buy fish and chips and eating them in one of the new cars. At 20 she moved to furriers in Clifton Street where she did some catwalk modeling. 18 months later she joined A. Genet & Co. as a bilingual secretary. She remained here for 27 years enjoying business trips to the company’s offices in Sierra Leonne and climbing to Company Director. Deciding it was time for a change, she became a genealogist where she worked for 16 years before she retired. She was always keen to share that the company was in Knightsbridge and Harrod’s was their corner shop! Estelle loved to shop (especially in charity shops), travel, embrace new cultures, and continually learn. She was also an avid reader, she enjoyed crosswords, scrabble, and chatting with family and friends. Her lifelong love of animals continued with feline companions Tommy, Lottie, and Sammie.

Funeral Details

St Andrews Fulham Fields

20/05/2024

12pm

Officiant: Reverend Sam Ryland & Reverend Anne Cowley

Estelle loved fresh flowers and would say I want to enjoy them when I'm alive! To honor her wishes there will only be one spray of flowers from the family.

In place of flowers if you would like to make a donation Estelle's chosen charity is the Royal Chelsea Hospital (the link to the donation page can be found here on the memorial page.

Estelle loved colour and 'bling'. The family encourages you to add colour and/or accessories to honor Estelle's love of clothes.

 

Wake

Heather & Daniel invite you to stay at St Andrews church after the service to share in light refreshments and share memories.

Memories

Condolences & Memories

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Heather Sydes13 May 2024

Such a challenge to share one memory when there are so many. Sitting at the kitchen table chatting, exploring London together, travels in Ohio. The highs and the lows – you been with me though them all. How fortunate I am to have had such a special Auntie in my life. Love and miss you AYK. xoxo

Philippe ReynaudReply18 May 2024

Estelle told me about a caring and loving niece. I realize now Heather, how true this is.

Denice Thompson, Ohio US of A14 May 2024

Another one of Auntie’s Adventures. Everyone loved meeting and talking with her, she made everyone feel at ease with her. NEVER GONE AS LONG AS SOMEONE SPEAKS THEIR NAME, and Aunt Estelle’s name will be spoken by people who love her for years to come. God Bless You Auntie Estelle.

Heather SydesReply14 May 2024

She loved spending time with you both ❤️

James and Simon14 May 2024

We bonded over a shared love of cats, over the love of a good chat (and some wine) and as neighbours. Estelle was from Britain’s Greatest Generation, the same as my mother and father. Their courage and resilience during WWII, even as children, allowed us who have followed to lead the lives we lead. Estelle was always so appreciative of being alive and of being appreciated. Every telephone call to her was met with great delight and she was always so grateful to be invited to any dinner or outing. She was never one to complain and always looked for the positive. A lesson for us all. Finally, she showed her enthusiasm for life through the care and attention she paid to her appearance. Always elegant, with hair done just right, and smartly dressed. No jeans and trainers for her! Farewell, and au revoir , dear friend Estelle. James and Simon x

Heather SydesReply14 May 2024

You spoiled her! She loved it! The Dorchester visit was THE BEST. So very special.

Philippe Reynaud14 May 2024

I remember being at the back of my father’s car, so happy to go to visit Estelle and Aunty on a Christmas eve in the 60s. On the way to Greyhound road, the mix of the lights of London, the falling snow and the good time we were going to have were magic to my child eyes. How lucky I was to go to see you when we were still in London, how lucky I have been to be able to talk with you on the phone, how lucky I am to have the privilege to have in memory such a sweet, funny and kind Lady. Thank you Tételle.

Heather SydesReply14 May 2024

Auntie would always be so excited to share that you had visited or phoned her. She love you and so proud of the man you became. Thank you for sharing the memory. Very special.

Roger Patterson16 May 2024

My family have known Estelle for fifty years from the time we acquired Batemans confectionery shop 136 Greyhound Road known as Audrey’s our mothers name. Estelle played a very important part in keeping our bookkeeping in order. Mother and Estelle were very good freinds and spent many good evenings with of course Jeanne.Only a short background on a wonderful association with a great person whom we will sorely miss. God bless you Estelle, rest in peace my darling.Roger and family ❤️

Heather SydesReply20 May 2024

So many memories. I remember Auntie sitting at the table with your books! She enjoyed your visits… especially when you brought and shared a glass or two of red wine!

Helen (Bones)18 May 2024

Estelle and I, on holiday in Russia about 60 years ago, introduced the “Twist”, then a new dance craze, to Moscow! Happy memories over many years. We had promised to take her out to lunch on or about her next birthday – we will now just have to drink to her instead………. She had a great sense of humour! Used to send us jokes. bless you Estelle!

Claire Roquedepinho19 May 2024

Since I can remember my cousin has been in my life. As a child l remember her swooning over Frank sinatra. Christmas day was Always spent together with her mum and all of us at the orchard Restaurant, estelle appropriately covered in bling. L don’t think I will pass greyhound Road again. It would be painful remembering all the laughter shared. She was the kindest and Most thoughtful person, you will liveon in my memory, a special lady you were to me. Bless you Claire

Anthony & Nicola Morris19 May 2024

My late mother, Anna Morris, regarded Estelle always as one of the family and no wonder Estelle became my godmother. In the years Anna lived with Nicola and I in Spain she would recount her stories of their countless holidays together and we would immediately hear of Estelle’s news after their weekly phone call.  They never missed a week in over 60 years of friendship.   Estelle was always very supportive of Nicola and I with our ventures in Spain and we will always remember her warmth, laughter and positivity with fondest love.   R.I.P our lovely Estelle! XOXO

Charmaine19 May 2024

Estelle was truly one of the brightest, purest and most beautiful human beings I have had the priviledge to know.  When we saw each other the laughter we shared was that of childhood friends who had known each other for a lifetime. She was everything you would want in a best friend and I loved her deeply.  I will miss her so much, but I know she lives on in my heart forever. Love you always Estelle from your adoring Charmaine, Luke and Venus x

Jane Hardman-Ferris7 Jun 2024

I was so sorry to hear of Estelle’s passing – she and my late Mum, Christine (Barton) were good friends & Mum used to speak to Estelle regularly before she died in 2006. I remember visiting Maman & Estelle many times when I was a little girl and Maman would always give me a large glass of milk and tell me about her life. We lived just off North End Road on Sedlescombe Road. Maman and Estelle were wonderful people and Mum was so pleased she was able to attend & pay her respects at Mamans funeral.. Mum always said she was one of the bravest, most amazing woman she ever knew. We had moved from London in the 1970s to Yorkshire so seeing each other was difficult as mum didn’t drive but they regularly spoke on the phone. I was sorting some things in a box today and happened across a beautiful card from Estelle to my Mum and a little brooch that had belonged to Maman that she had gifted to her. I was trying to find her contact details when I happened across her obituary..so sad.. They all were the most incredible people, so warm and loving and brave. Rest In Peace lovely Estelle all my love to you family Jane Hardman-Ferris

Françoise Manners2 Jul 2024

Oh, I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss Estelle enormously. I have known her, through my father, the Lycee, and the Anciens Eleves, for most of my life, and her laugh will never leave me. We spoke every few weeks, and I visited when I could, and she was always cheerful, always full of stories and reminiscences (in French and in English) and always there was laughter. I would have loved to be present at the funeral, and to speak to some of her friends and family about whom she spoke to often. For me the last of her generation.

Phil Crowhurst4 Jul 2024

I last saw Estelle many, many years ago. It must have been in the early 1960s, when I was a very small boy. So in truth I have but the faintest of memories of her. She was a good friend of my parents when they were living in London in the 1950s. I was born in 1960, and Estelle was my godmother. As children, she and her mother were always known to me, my brother and sisters as ‘Madame and Estelle’. She always remembered my birthday and would send me a present every year. I always wrote a ‘thankyou letter’. Even now, her address is semi-ingrained on my memory from all those letters. Was it 55 Greyhound Mansions? One year, probably in the early 1970s, she sent me a gift voucher (or probably a postal order) which I used to buy a Slade record. I told her that in my thankyou letter. A week or so later a follow-up package arrived from her in the post. It contained a Slade t-shirt and various other Slade paraphernalia. Apparently she had some connection with the band through her work. What a hero she was. We had lost touch by the mid 1970s, but I still have those memories. What an amazing life she had. RIP ‘Aunt Estelle’

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Funeral Details

Location
St Andrews Fulham Fields
Date
20/05/2024
Time
12pm
Officiant
Reverend Sam Ryland & Reverend Anne Cowley

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