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Funeral Conductors






Funeral Conductors
The primary role of a Funeral Conductor is to ensure that everything runs smoothly and as planned for the funeral. On the day, you will be greeted by one of our Conductors, Donna, Stuart, Alex, Dean, Brian or Martin. Your conductor, recognisable with a top hat and cane, will be your main point of contact and will compassionately guide you and all attendees through the day. Each of our conductors are highly experienced and will answer any of your questions as well as providing instruction to our team or family members who choose to carry the coffin.
Funeral Support Staff
Funeral Support Staff
Our funeral support team will bring your loved one into our mortuary care using our specialist private ambulance vehicles. We will respectfully follow your instructions for their care which may include embalming, dressing in their own clothes, make-up, shaving, hair-styling or any other requests that you may have.
On the day of the funeral, our team of professional pallbearers (coffin bearers) and chauffeurs will be there to support you together with your Conductor and any officiant you have chosen for the day. Our team will always be immaculately dressed in matching smart uniforms. If you wish, you can also request less traditional attire for our funeral team too.
Funeral Arrangement Team
Funeral Arrangement Team
We will patiently and compassionately guide you through each stage of the arrangement process. Our aim is to make the process as simple as possible for you and to give you the freedom to make the choices you need, whilst having plenty of time to focus on planning the service content with your chosen officiant. We will always be led by you and your choices, working tirelessly to ensure we make each of your requests possible for the funeral.
Harriet Gilbert
Funeral Arranger
Michelle Pike
Funeral Arranger
Kate Mercer
Funeral Arranger
Megan Pownall
Funeral Arranger
Matt Stafford
Funeral Arranger
Tali Stafford
Funeral Arranger
Laya Suraparaju
Funeral Arranger
Holly Knaggs
Funeral Arranger
Emma Fowler
Funeral Arranger
Medical Education Body Donation
In Memory Of Life are extremely proud to partner with the University of London to provide funeral services for those who donate their bodies to medical education throughout the south east of England. Read more below including how to donate your own body.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I see my loved one before the funeral?
Do I have to pay a deposit or any up front payments?
No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.
Do you offer payment plans for the funeral?
Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.
We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.
Do you accept applicants with a government DWP Funeral Grant?
Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.
You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments
What options do you have for a Greener funeral?
At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.
How much will a funeral cost?
The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below
Can I plan ahead and pay for my funeral in advance?
Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.