Jayne Hayes

Growing up Jayne was like a second mum to me. She was such a wonderful lady and was the mum that took in all the kids as her own. The door was always open and there was always a bed and a meal waiting. Jaynes house was filled with love, laughter, sound advice and even parental punishment, she once actually banned me from my phone once. From Friday night chippies, to box hair dye, back rubs and holidays to Blackpool, you’ll have a place in my heart and mind forever.

This is the hardest thing to write,asyou have to admit what youve been trying to deny for so many weeks now that someone you loved so dearly has gone. My beautiful auntie jayne the youngest out of her siblings but strong and brave, lost her mum early on and still carried on and showed people what she was made of. She was beautiful and clever made good choices in business,was with the man she loved who is an awesome uncle so loving and caring invested in how you are doing in your life.Had a family a beautiful baby girl LIly who was her evrything!!! Just like my mum tho she still had so much love to give so she fostered and tried to make others lives better. Now that is something our family knows all too well she was the rock of our family always helping us out in more ways than one So close with her big sister ,my mum theyd talk for what seemed like an eternity on the phone anything the family needed she was there,we all owe so much to her. I owe her so much! I miss her ‘tough love ‘ tell me you dont know what i mean x I miss my hours on the phone to her giving me reason to carry on because even though id lost my mum i felt for that hour on the phone id borrowed lilys i felt like my mum was there when i spoke to jayne x To have that love i was forever grateful because im truly hard work sometimes. LILY oh my god lil she was so so proud of you and you grew up to be just like her beautiful,kind hearted, strong willed,hard-headed, incredibly clever the list goes on…. Oh my would she proud of you and how you’re coping you and you’re dad were her reason for living and she loved you so very much. I love you and the family so much it hurts x I love you always and forever Auntie jayne my auntie and my friend xxx Lots of love tash

Jane’s warmth and hospitality was second to none, she always made you feel so welcome and nothing was ever too much trouble. Her kindness and sense of humour made spending time with her a total joy. Jane had just enough of a naughty streak to ensure being in her company was never dull! Her love for her family and support of others came so naturally to her, l am so grateful to have had Jane in my life albeit not for long enough. It’s lovely to see Lily has so many of her Mothers wonderful attributes. l hope l am able to offer the same comfort and support to Melvyn and Lily Jane so kindly gave to me and my family when we most needed it. Sleep tight you beautiful human xxx

Jayne to me was like a second mum where me and jordan were so close from a young age, I could say whole heartedly that I’ve never met another woman quite like her. She was such a kind and loving woman who would always want to give me a hug any time I visited and always had a smile on her face and want a chat whenever I bumped into her. Jayne will always be such a big part of my childhood, she definitely kept me and Jordan in line when we were kids and to this day i still thank her for it. I have so many good memories that I will always remember. Jayne you may not be with us anymore but you will always hold a place in my heart right along side my own parents, thankyou for being the amazing person you were

So very sorry to hear such truly sad news and to let you know we are thinking of you all. We have so many really lovely memories of happy and fun times spent with you all at your home while the children were all such good friends at Primary School. Jayne was such an amazing and lovely person, so down-to-earth, so kind, so funny, so firm but so fair, so welcoming and she gave so much to so many. You really are one of the loveliest families we have ever met and spent time with. Please take of yourselves and each other; Jayne gave you all some great tools to set you up in life and she will be so proud of how you are using them. If ever there is anything we can do, we are here for you all any time, always. Sending lots of love and hugs to you all, Tina, Peter, Makena and Maia xxxx