Lawrence Mascarenhas

In Loving Memory

Lawrence Mascarenhas

Born
5 September 1955
Passed
8 November 2023
Lived In
London
The family wishes to extend deep gratitude to all, for the prayers, support, comforting messages, calls, flowers, letters and cards during this time of bereavement.

If you would like to leave a memory of Lawrence or a message to Lawrence's family, please scroll to the bottom of the page.

A Memorial Service to celebrate Lawrence's life will also be held at a later date.

Lawrence's Life Story

Born
5 September 1955
Passed
8 November 2023
Lived In
London
With heavy hearts we say goodbye to a remarkable human being.
Lawrence has touched the lives of so many and now leaves a gaping void that will never be filled.
He was a generous man with a huge heart and an even bigger laugh.
He was an amazing clinician, extremely skilled surgeon, fantastic teacher, mentor, colleague and friend.
He will always be remembered for his infectious laugh, his mischievous sense of humour and his amazing determination and zest for life.
Lawrence loved his work and for three decades, more than two of which were at Guys and St Thomas’s he dedicated his life to obstetrics and gynaecology. He never had a day off sick until his first operation on 28th June 2021, even working on that morning doing admin tasks from his hospital room.
After a very difficult 18 months he returned to work and continued working until two weeks before he died, enjoying every single day.
Lawrence also loved family, friends, good food, football, any social occasion, iPhones, all animals particularly his beloved dog and cat, and of course adventure.
He travelled extensively with Joyce and his family in the last two years of his life, even when he wasn’t feeling brilliant his determination spurred him on.
“What a man” the words of his Oncology Professor.
In the words of his colleagues, second to none, legend, one of a kind, irreplaceable, cream of the crop, I could go on.
Keep flying high Lawrence your legacy will live on in the hearts of all you touched.
It’s so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone.
We will miss you forever.

 

 

Funeral Details

Westminster Cathedral

28/11/2023

10:30am

Officiant: Father Witon, Cathedral Dean

Please join us for a service at Westminster Cathedral Victoria Street, London SW1P 1LT at 10:30am.

A Private Cremation Service will take place at Mortlake Crematorium, Townmead Road, London TW9 4EN for immediate family and close friends at 2pm.

The Family kindly request that there are no flowers at the Service but welcome donations to The Royal Marsden Cancer Charity or Cancer Research UK.

Lawrence's Service will be livestreamed via the Westminster Cathedral website.

A recording of the Service will be available via Westminster Cathedral's Website until 5th December 2023

Wake

Joyce and the family welcome you to join them at 73 Beauval Road, Dulwich, SE22 8UH from 4pm-7pm.

Please let Joyce know in advance if you are planning on attending.

Memories

Condolences & Memories

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Julia austin25 Nov 2023

So many people loved Lawrence. I have worked in many places but when he was at Northampton as a registrar we used to have soooo much fun. Lawrence often instigated the jokes and tricks and the rest of us just fell in because he was so charismatic. He lit rooms up with his sense of fun. Loved him. A trusted good doctor. Those days at the Barrett were the best and very special. Sending all my love to joyce and family

Graham PankhurstReply4 Dec 2023

Sophie and I are so sad that Lawrence has passed. He was a true friend and on numerous occasions gave us his wonderful gift in life of enthusiasm, joy and true kindness especially during the most difficult time of our lives with the passing of my wife.  He was a great man with a special gift of love which was so evident in his supreme ability to make you feel instantly easy, relaxed as a true friend. Always his words on opening our conversation were, “Hello boss” but inwardly, I knew that he was the boss but would never, ever show it. Such a remarkable man and we will miss him.  On occasions when we spoke, he was so clear about his illness and he was incredibly strong with coping and he reminded me of my wife, Yung Joo, being is the same situation and where he was in the same position in relation to the inevitability, showing his wonderful strength of character.  Going back many years, Lawrence helped and advised me with my business which turned out to be most positive and beneficial in every way. He was a supreme influencer.  He had an unrelenting kindness to my Daughter, Sophie, and me during the most difficult times of our lives and Lawrence, Joyce and family welcomed and invited Sophie and me to join them for Christmas which we will never forget. Lawrence’s kindness was so evident. We give your all our love and offer you our most sincere condolences.

Rob Broadhurst25 Nov 2023

I knew Lawrence for over 20 years but never really knew him. I was fortunate to meet him once but will never forget his presence or humour even though we talked mostly about tax! Despite meeting him only once, I am proud to call him a friend. Rest in peace my friend. I know you will make your new home a happier place for those you are now with.

Belinda Tomalin25 Nov 2023

Lawrence was the most remarkable doctor I have ever known. He delivered all 4 of my babies. He was so devoted to his work. His love for his job really shone through all that he did. He always made you laugh, even when you were worried. You are forever in our hearts Lawrence, until we see you again. Thank you Belinda x

nick morris25 Nov 2023

I have been fortunate enough to have known Lawrence for over 30 years as a friend and colleague. Lawrence was a fabulous communicator and he taught me the importance of good slides and preparation. We were clinical colleagues in Cambridge. Lawrence nicknamed me morrisaid and I called him masquerade. He was a brilliant colleague, and our friendship continued in London. He had amazing tenacity and I will miss terribly our phone chats and talks. Lawrence thank you for being a friend and giving such colour and vigour to my life. Joyce you had a fine man.

Mya26 Nov 2023

I started to know Mr Mascarenhas when I had been short-listed for interview in February,2023 @ Guy’s & St Thomas ‘NHS Trust. He was the one who short-listed me, interviewed me and brought me to GSTT from overseas. He guided me throughout my career since I started my job in May, 2023 at St Thomas’ hospital. He was not only my educational supervisor but also a colleague tutor and so we worked closely together for all administrative and clinical work. My time with him was very short but I always feel so blessed to have this knd of mentor who was very kind, passionate, energetic and a guiding star. My daily prayer are with him and please accept my deepest condolences from my heart to Joyce and famiy. That is an irreplaceable loss for me too. May my mentor soul rest in peace and arrive to a better place.

Tanya Nippita26 Nov 2023

Lawrence was instrumental in helping us Aussie registrars come over to work at GSTT (and have a wonderful year travelling Europe and the UK)- thank you for being so welcoming and supportive of the Royal North Shore Hospital registrars coming to GSTT for a decade. Peter Bland (RNSH Training director) knew him very well over the years and also passes on his condolences- Lawrence and Peter bonded over their shared football passion and humour. Condolences to Joyce and family and the GSTT family. regards, Tanya

Jo and Tony Ikwue26 Nov 2023

Memories from Nottingham QMC, thanks Lawrence you were fun and a great person to work with. Helped with my own daughter Amelia’s birthday. Always remembered

Jo Cox (Saxton)26 Nov 2023

Mr Mascarenhas changed my life; and was instrumental in enabling me to bring two more in to the world. I had suffered with PCOS from the age of 14; though it was not until I was 33 and met Lawrence that I realised this was what had been affecting me. This is despite having needed multiple surgeries for large and rupturing cysts. Lawrence’s generosity is reflected by the messages of support he continued to send me from time to time in the years to follow, and I enjoyed sharing photos with him of the glorious children he enabled me to have. I will be forever grateful to him for what his knowledge and care gave me.

Renee26 Nov 2023

I worked with Lawrence at the BMH Northampton for many years.When he was on duty he was nicknamed 007!He was always cheerful & made people laugh.All the patient’s loved him.He was a brilliant doctor & would help anyone.He was a good friend too.He will be dearly missed.Our thoughts are with Joyce & family.x

Srividhya Sankaran26 Nov 2023

on Xmas 2022, he came straight after attending mass in Westminster Cathedral, to support us in the safe birth when there was a complication, which he was an expert in managing. He will be missed this Xmas and always. He made a personal connection with everyone he came across. He was honest with his opinions and feedbacks. He cared about his colleagues and juniors genuinely. He brightened the workplace with his uninhibited laughter. Lawrence was generous with his time, effort and money. With his passion, unwavering support and fearless attitude, we achieved a lot for training. Everything about him are legendary stories narrated by his colleagues – Eurostar trip, love of football, his latest travel adventures, Nando’s trip, and go on. May the legend’s soul rest in peace!

Marisa Alvarez26 Nov 2023

I have known Mascarenas for the past 18 years and he always had a smile on his face despite how crazy the shift was going. He always had a good relationship with colleagues, incredible sense og humour and always made me laugh….I really going to miss him around. My biggest condolences to Joyce and his family. Rest in peace .

Nhathien Nguyen-Lu26 Nov 2023

“Morning Boss!” is how Lawrence used to greet us before an operating list. Big smiles, full of laughter and charm. Never a dull moment in theatre.  He was proud and passionate about his work especially the placenta accreta cases. Our last one together merely a month ago, whereby the patient feedback summarised him perfectly. “His kind, compassionate approach combined with his expertise and clear communication.” We will miss your positive energy, great stories and tall tales from across the drapes.  “Goodnight Boss, sleep well, we will miss you!” Collectively from the Consultant Anaesthetic team, your dear friends and colleagues.

Gavin Mascarenhas27 Nov 2023

Lawrence was my eldest brother: kind, generous, loving and always taking me under his wing. In a family trip to Rome a close encounter with pope Francis brought him very close to God. Rest in peace my dear brother, I will always love you and pray for your soul.

Comfort Momoh M.B.E27 Nov 2023

I have known Mr Mascarenhas for the past 22years or so. What a kind and gentle man with Beautiful smile. Thank you so so much for your kindness and support. You will really really be missed Lawrence. Rest in Perfect Peace. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you Joyce and the family. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at very this difficult time.

Anne Mascarenhas (your mum)27 Nov 2023

A leader and the head of the family who believed in the family unity! A son who always had my interest at heart daily. I shall miss you but I had to let go as you were suffering in silence. Goodbye Jos until we meet again. It’s au revoir for now and go an and join your dad, Yvonne, Karen and Martha up there. Thank you for everything you did for the family and God bless you too. Your heart broken mum❤️❤️

Mervyn27 Nov 2023

I am his younger brother and he was a real leader to our entire family and to me. There was always something new going on with him and belive me he was full of ideas. I’ll never forget that he always said to me(us) there is always a way to get there and once again believe me he never gave up. I do miss him very very much and life is not going to be easy without him but up there boss I’m sure that you are having a good time. Thank you a million times for all you have done for me boss.

Francisca Aleshe27 Nov 2023

Lawrence was an absolute gentleman and such a happy man whose infectious laugh brightened the room. I will always remember that smile and joke cracked, when he managed to use the iPad to document on Badgernet. It was very evident that he loved his job and profession, he will be greatly missed. What a great man! Sleep and rest well Lawrence, gone but not forgotten

Jon & Maggie Knaggs27 Nov 2023

Joyce & Lawrence our dear friends for over 30 years. Lawrence was a larger than life character we have been blessed to know & share his life journey.He never changed. Always generous, committed to his work & full of mischief & fun. Rest easy Lawrence & deepest condolences to Joyce & family.

Allan Varughese27 Nov 2023

In loving memory of Lawrence Mascarenhas, a mentor, and a father figure. Our eight-year journey together was filled with shared passions and countless moments of camaraderie. As my trainer at work, Lawrence( Boss/Sir) seamlessly blended tough leadership with genuine friendship, offering unwavering advice, motivation, and support. Behind the scenes of his robust work ethic, he remained a confidant, loyal friend, and colleague. His laughter and smiles never wavered, even in the most stressful situations, creating a warm and uplifting atmosphere for everyone. Beyond the office, Lawrence and I delved into discussions about family, philosophy, religion, travel, the afterlife, animals, and our shared love for Manchester United. The hours spent together working, traveling, and watching football were a testament to the depth of our connection. We shared much joy from laughter and indeed he had many stories. Lawrence’s disciplined approach had a profound impact on both patients and colleagues, leaving an indelible mark on their lives. His legacy will forever echo in our hearts and minds. The void left by his departure is immeasurable, but the memories we shared will serve as a lasting tribute to a remarkable man. As tears flow, my prayers and love extend to Joyce, the children, and the entire family. Until we meet again Boss, thank you for everything.

Sandrine Foldvari27 Nov 2023

Lawrence delivered our three daughters Laura ,Emma and Mila. He was incredibly entertaining for an obstetrician ():-) but also totally professional and I felt completely safe under his care. Lawrence managed to make even the most horrible delivery funny. He talked football with my husband for my first delivery, told everything about his safari to Kenya for my second, and for my third the labor being far too long he just took my husband for dinner while I was in my hospital room having beg my husband at least to make sure Lawrence would not touch a glass of wine:-) Lawrence has supported us enormously during my difficult pregnancy with our son who had a heart condition for which we had to be transferred to a another hospital. We will be forever grateful to him. Bon voyage Lawrence!

Charles BOYER27 Nov 2023

My dear Lawrence, my old Friend, I met you 49 years ago, it was in 1974 at Tours medical school. I was instantly fascinated by your dazzling personality, your laugh, your sense of humor and your amazing intelligence. We studied together for six years. Our emulation allowed us to succeed in our studies. You wanted to be a gynecologist and you became a gynecologist, and one of the best; i wanted to be a psychiatrist and I became a psychiatrist. You left for England, founded a beautiful family and had a wonderful career and when I saw you again after 24 years, it was as if I had left you the day before . Our friendship was intact. Your are still so present in my mind and it’s almost impossible for me to think I’ll never see you again . I share the grief of your loved ones, your mother, your wife Joyce, your children and your brothers. Je perds un magnifique ami, le paradis gagne une grande âme . Charles

Selina Agbenu27 Nov 2023

Dr Lawrence as i used to refer to him when i greeted him on the hospital corridors or lift lobby always had a smile. I have known him since 2005 @GSTT. He always had a positive outlook even when we had digital challenges and i was called to offer support. Thank you for being an inspiration to many of us . You will be missed greatly, RIP Dr Lawrence.

Michael Duncan27 Nov 2023

Mon vieux ami, vas y Au ciel, c’est mieux qu’ici Toi, le guerisseur de la douleur Et un explosion de couleurs C’etait ta vie Heuresement, c’etait ici

Jai Sharma27 Nov 2023

I Jai Sharma was SHO of Lawrence at Northampton in 1992 where he was registrar. Joyce was also there. We got on very well and soon became close friends, a friendship deemed to last forever and ever.Later I moved to London as registrar and then to India as Consultant ( Professor) while Lawrence moved to Guy’s and St Thomas as Consultant. He visited my house in London. I had invited him to India multiple times. He promised but couldn’t visit due to his very busy work schedule.We kept in touch and whenever I visited London I would call on Lawrence and Kumar Kunde in Guy’s and St Thomas hospital or would join for lunch or dinner in London. We also met in Melbourne Australia in 2002 during a conference. Lawrence was on Editorial Board of Indian Obstetrics and Gynaecology, a journal edited by me in India. In this file photograph, I and Kumar Kunde visited Lawrence and Joyce at their house in London in June 2023 at dinner and had long chat. I bade farewell with promise to visit him soon again during my next visit to UK but fate snatched him from us. I am totally at loss of words. He was always laughing and continued to work till the end, a strong message to everyone. May God grant eternal peace to dearest Lawrence and strength to dear Joyce, his children and friends to bear this unbearable, irreparable and irreplaceable loss.

Krystyna Grey27 Nov 2023

I worked alongside Lawrence as a midwifery sister. He always acted professional and caring where women in his care were concerned. It does not seem possible that his expertise has gone. His legacy will live on through the many Juniors who he taught and supported. My prayers and sympathy is with Joyce and his family.

ISHMAEL YAKEEN (X PORTER)27 Nov 2023

iI Ishmael was a porter that met him talking football a lovely soul that will be missed by those that knew him may his soul RIEP

Toh Lick28 Nov 2023

Mr Mascarenhas – a teacher, a friend, and a mentor! I was privileged to have worked and got to know Lawrence while I was at Guy’s & St Thomas’s Hospital. He taught me not only O&G, but shared his life philosophy and strategies. A warm and generous friend, we had a great time operating, running clinics and working on the roster as College tutor and Admin SR, as well as getting to know his lovely wife Joyce and family. Our deepest condolences to Joyce and his family.

Susanna28 Nov 2023

Dr. Mascarenhas gave birth to my first doughter 5 years ago and to my second daughter 5 months ago. After the first, we became closer friends due to his empathic attitude and our faith. I always felt he was Holy and Saint himself, spending his life giving birth. Un uomo straordinario di grande levatura spirituale. Sono troppo triste che ci hai lasciato. Che Dio ti abbia in gloria.

Andrew Shennan28 Nov 2023

Lawrence was a kind, caring and competent colleague. I never witnessed a harsh word in decades. Always available, always giving. A rare example to us all. Taken too early. May his family know he was appreciated. I miss him. May he rest in peace. 

Karmen Kasai28 Nov 2023

To my dear friend until we meet again Today at dawn, on the train to Victoria, I’ll journey alone, a heart heavy, a heart sore. In the brightness of day, shadows will linger, For you, dear friend, my thoughts shall consider. A day bathed in light, as dark as the night, Without your laughter, my world loses its light. My steps on the pavement of Westminster gray, Traverse the path we walked, now alone I’ll stray. Recollections of jokes and your teachings so wise, Echo through the air, where your laughter lies. In the little chaplaincy, where you lent a hand, To refugees, homeless, and the hopeless in the land. For a moment, I’ll sense you, your smile in the air, A fleeting presence, a whisper, you’ll be there. Through the doors of the Cathedral, I’ll silently tread, To our usual spot, where countless prayers were said. Ten times, I’ll murmur the “Our Father” and “Hail Mary,” In the hallowed space, where you once knelt beside me. A candle I’ll light, its flicker for you, my boss, I feel your spirit, the connection is not a loss. Boss, I know you’re above, in that heavenly space, Entertaining angels, bringing joy to every face. Missing you, my friend, it’s a pain hard to bear, Until we meet again, in the beyond, somewhere. Watch over St. Peter and all the heavenly throng, Keep them smiling and singing, in your laughter’s song. Farewell, dear friend, until paths intertwine, In the tapestry of eternity, where our spirits entwine.

Tricia Glanville (now Yates)28 Nov 2023

Tricia Glanville (now Yates) I had the pleasure and the honour to call lawrence my friend for over 40 years. We worked together at Northants General and he helped us establish the Fertility Service at the Three Shires. We had so many memorable times; dashing up the Wellingborough Rd after egg collections to his favourite restaurant with Roy and Sammy, trips to London and the RCOG with Roy and Gautham, swimming with our families at the NGH pool on Sunday morning followed by a long lunches after and watching all the kids play. And we helped each other through tough times, like the tragic loss of Karen. His laughter permeated every clinic, he was mischievous, funny, the eternal practical joker, the dedicated clinician, empathic listener, and most of all my mate. He called me Madam, I called him Monsieur. I will miss our phone calls across the world between Melbourne and London. No one will fill the huge void he has left. RIP to one of the kindest people I have known. The world has lost a good one.

Isabelle Baeskens28 Nov 2023

Cher Lawrence, Tu vas beaucoup nous manquer et tu vas laisser un grand vide. Je me souviendrai toujours de ta personnalité hors du commun, de ta volonté et de ta détermination immenses que seule la maladie a pu détruire. Tu étais remarquablement intelligent et clairvoyant. Ton parcours professionnel force l’admiration. On ne t’oubliera pas.

Marc & Maaike28 Nov 2023

We met Lawrence and Joyce only a short while ago during our jungle/pampas trip in Bolivia but had so much fun with them. Whenever we think back about our time together, his jokes and his funny fascination for wildlife a smile appears on our face.  Our thoughts are with Joyce and his family❤️

Greg Ward28 Nov 2023

I first met Lawrence 20 years ago on our specialty training committee and he was a man you couldn’t help but love. His warmth, infectious laugh and wonderful zest for life lit up the room. He was one of life’s best and will always be remembered with deep love and affection by all who had the privilege of meeting him. Lawrence farewell my friend. Your memory will always live on. My sincerest condolences to all the family.

Dharmintra Pasupathy28 Nov 2023

It is a very sad day today as we bid farewell to our dear colleague and friend Lawrence. A great man indeed who was always smiling and spreading cheer. Always willing to listen and support his colleagues especially the juniors. He cared for us and was a solid rock to many. Thank you for your friendship Lawrence. I miss you as I am sure many at GSTT will as well. My thoughts, condolences and love to Joyce, your mum and the children. Rest well my friend.

Gautam Mehra28 Nov 2023

We will all miss Lawrence! He was a gentleman and an excellent doctor, loved by his patients. He always was so cheerful with an infectious laugh to cheer all his colleagues and stand aside us as a friend, mentor and a great teacher. It is really sad that he left us at such young age and he will be greatly missed! I will remember the chats I had with him over Coffee And talk about current issues in always a cheerful manner. He Was always so respectful to everyone. Our Gynaecology and obstetric community will miss him dearly and I pray that his soul rest in peace. My thoughts are with his family and pray they are coping well in these difficult times. God bless his soul

John Krestas28 Nov 2023

Good Bye my dear Friend. I am already missing you, but I keep remebering the nice times we passed in Old Traford and the endless Brexit debates ! Rest in peace and if you see Lena up there tell her will be joining you sooner or later

Ruth-Ann Sterling28 Nov 2023

Mr. LM was a lovely man, so full of light and laughter. A great teacher and mentor. My life was enriched by knowing and learning from him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time and on this day. Rest well LM, you will be missed.

Dee Laker28 Nov 2023

Lawrence – dear man. How we will miss you. HBC will not be the same without your laughter and smiles. Rest in peace.

FayUnderwood28 Nov 2023

Lawrence was so kind to not only his patients but to all of us,as a member of the obstetric theatre team her was so supportive.May be great in peace and sending all our love and thoughts to Joyce and family.\

Francesco28 Nov 2023

Ciao Dr Mascarenhas, thanks for all you did for us. Here with Sofia and Luca. Raffaella and Francesco

FayUnderwood28 Nov 2023

Lawrence,always kind even to us scrub nurses in obstetrics.I got to know him out of work babysitting,Please give my love to Joyce and family.

Sarah Seels Vetokele28 Nov 2023

Docteur Mascarenhas, un être humain incroyable, un sourire qui illumine une pièce, il n’y a pas de mot assez bien pour vous decrire. Vous avez donné la vie à mes deux enfants, vous avez été présent les plus beaux jours de ma vie. Vous avez une place importante dans le cœur de notre famille. Je ne peux que dire Merci! Reposez en paix. Nos sincères condoléances La famille Vetokele

Linda Fernandes-Brooks & Tim Brooks28 Nov 2023

Oh Lawrence Your work is done and now you can rest well in Heaven.   You have inspired so many people, laughed with them and put a smile on their faces on so many occasions.  Your infectiously hearty laugh was a reminder of your fun loving character that shone on every level.   At our lunch in London with Trevor a few years ago you spoke of your gratitude to Leslie for the Maths tuition he gave you many years ago.   Thanks for telling the story to our children Lisa & Liam that their Daddy helped you on your career path to becoming a Doctor You have worked hard and set an example to so many. My heart goes out to Joyce and to your children.  You will always be watching over them with pride and joy.   Make them laugh in Heaven Lawrence and rest in peace Lots of Love  Linda Fernandes-Brooks (Trevor’s  Aunt) & Tim Brooks

Yuliya Ashton28 Nov 2023

Dr L Mascarenhas, you will be missed! I have met him at my first GSTT’s interview, by now more than 4 years ago. A big kind heart and a real gentleman. I have always felt so privileged to work alongside with him, learn from his experience and clinical excellence. He was able to find a right word for everyone around him. To his family & loved one. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. 

Gurpreet and Ramnik28 Nov 2023

A kind hearted and gentle angel that brought peace, calm and joy to our family. With his soothing tones and distracting laughter, Lawrence calmed our nerves, reassuring us even with just his presence that everything would be ok.  Dearest Lawrence rest in peace and look down as a guardian angel on all that you delivered.  We will miss you deeply.❤️

Audrey Safra28 Nov 2023

It is with deep sadness that we learned Dr Mascarenhas is no longer with us. He assisted us for the birth of our two children. We keep very fond memories of him, his kindness, attention and professionalism. We are so happy our kids’s first sight was his communicative smile. Our thoughts are with his wife, children and relatives in this difficult moment.

Gulnaz Majeed28 Nov 2023

Mr Mascarenhas a thorough gentleman always cheerful and positive. I am so gad in the last few months we had worked together to support GP trainees. His energy, zeal and enthusiasm was infectious. A great role model for me. May Allah have mercy on his soul and shower him with blessings in his journey to heaven.

Joyce Mascarenhas28 Nov 2023

Dear All, Thank you to those who could make it today, watched the livestream and have sent in so many lovely messages. We so appreciate your support during this time. Please find below the eulogy and poem read during the service by our daughters Jessica and Sophie. Eulogy Thank you all for being here today, it means a lot to our family.  My dad had a huge heart and an even bigger smile, he was the most generous person I know. Generous in kindness, generous in enthusiasm and generous in time. He made sure to give us a childhood filled with fun, laughter and incredible experiences. He loved travelling, spending time with his family, eating good food, watching the football and of course he loved his animals too. I know parents aren’t meant to have a favourite child but I think we all know that my dad definitely favoured one of us the most; she has four legs a lot of hair and her name is Lola. If you knew my dad you also knew he loved to break the rules and go against the grain. Whilst he was battling this diagnosis and being told day after day by mum and his doctors to slow down and relax, naturally he was booking trips to hike through the Bolivian rainforests, trek across the US and of course drive a 4×4 across the Masai mara on safari. He was determined to live life to the fullest even when his body and his peers were telling him not too.  My Dad was an inspiration to me in his character but also in his determination throughout his career. From humble beginnings he became an expert in his field, a talented teacher and a friend to his colleagues. He taught us that we can achieve anything if we set our mind to it. He spent his life giving back to others less fortunate, spending his last Christmas’s volunteering at homeless shelters, summers volunteering at hospitals in Kenya all whilst attending as many of mine and my siblings events growing up as he could. He made sure to show up for us at sports matches, orchestra concerts and many more, mostly coming straight from work. He’d always be the one cheering the loudest at the back, even if he had been watching the football secretly on his phone for most of the event.  I’d like to think my dad is now finally at rest and in no pain, reunited with his friends, his sister and his daughter Karen probably watching the football and most definitely making everyone laugh. The grief we are all feeling is evidence that he had a great impact on all of our lives, an impact that will not easily be forgotten. I feel lucky to have known such a special person and even luckier to call him my Dad. When I’m Gone – Mosiah Lyman Hancock When I come to the end of my journey And I travel my last weary mile Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned And remember only the smile Forget unkind words I have spoken Remember some good I have done Forget that I ever had heartache And remember I’ve had loads of fun Forget that I’ve stumbled and blundered And sometimes fell by the way Remember I have fought some hard battles And won, ere the close of the day Then forget to grieve for my going I would not have you sad for a day But in summer just gather some flowers And remember the place where I lay And come in the shade of evening When the sun paints the sky in the west Stand for a few moments beside me And remember only my best

Yasser Diab29 Nov 2023

Dear Lawrence my friend my brother rest in peace till we meet again, I hope we felt the joy of living with you around your positivity moved mountains of obstacles away, you led us to move on and never look back, your helping hand was always extended, your smile and laughter, jokes and tales were always the highlights of the day, your knowledge and wisdom brought the best out of us, you infused confidence and security when you were nearby you will be sorely missed and never forgotten Adieu mon ami, mon frere I want to share the song by Enrico Macias, this was the code of our lifelong and eternal friendship L’ami fidèle/Lyrics The faithful friend always follows you  L’ami fidèle toujours te suit  You don’t know how far  Tu ne sais pas jusqu’où  Even if you are all alone in life  Même si tu es tout seul dans la vie  And let him be anywhere  Et qu’il soit n’importe où  If the friend protects the friend  Si l’ami protège l’ami  It’s the reason to live  C’est la raison de vivre  All for one and each for all  Tous pour un et chacun pour tous  Faithfully united Fidèlement unis I can sing this tune every time  Je peux chanter cet air chaque fois  That I need you  Que j’ai besoin de toi  But if I hear the call of your voice  Mais si j’entends l’appel de ta voix  You can count on me  Tu peux compter sur moi  And our breaths in unison  Et nos souffles à l’unisson  Let’s play the song again  Reprendrons la chanson  All for one and each for all  Tous pour un et chacun pour tous  Throughout the seasons Tout au long des saisons The faithful friend must be happy when you are in love  L’ami fidèle doit être heureux quand tu es amoureux  But if he gets in your way, he’ll go further  Mais s’il se trouve sur ton chemin, il s’en ira plus loin  For worse and for better  Pour le pire et pour le meilleur  In friendship of the heart  Dans l’amitié du cœur  All for one and each for all  Tous pour un et chacun pour tous  Let’s move towards happiness  Allons vers le bonheur  All for one and each for all  Tous pour un et chacun pour tous  Let’s move towards happiness Allons vers le bonheur Source: Musixmatch Songwriters: Philippe Gerard / Grigorij Pozhenjan / Petrov Andrej Pavlovich https://youtu.be/_HB9lDet96Q?si=BGtm51D0ZFua2Vup

Andew Lykiardopoulos29 Nov 2023

Some people think inside the box. Others think outside the box. Lawrence didn`t realise that there was a box at all.  My first encounter with him was when he installed the largest satellite dish known to man on the wall behind our houses. When I went to complain, I was treated to such an extensive and enthusiastic demonstration of its wonders (football could be watched from all over the world) that all opposition evaporated. That summed him up: whatever one might at first think about an escapade, by the time he had explained it – with expertise, passion and enthusiasm – it made perfect sense and was impossible to resist. So often we would speak to Joyce at 4pm on a Friday and hear that they had nothing much planned for the weekend, only to see her on Monday and hear that Lawrence had come home with tickets to France/ the US/ Mexico – you name it – and they had spent the weekend there – sometimes with a dash to the passport office to renew some passport or other before leaving with minutes to spare. Many a quiet afternoon ended with a trip to France returning with buckets of foie gras, wine and tales of the perfect place to stay or eat. Amanda and I have still to visit the fabled Moon Palace in Cancun or self-drive ourselves through Kenya – but I can hear him saying “Andrew, go on, you must give it a try – it’s fantastic”. And I cannot forget his passion for technology. He was always telling me how to download this or that, how to obtain the best rates from the best websites, how to avoid tedious Apple restrictions on my phone (not that I did, I add hastily), how and where to buy the largest TV screens and so on. It was no surprise to me that he was an early (and of course enthusiastic) adopter of hybrid and electric cars – leading to a very high speed (and terrifying) demonstration of the acceleration abilities of the new electric BMW on Alleyn Road.  I still shudder at the thought. But always behind everything was his family and his work. He was passionate about both. Although he did not in the end deliver Bruno, he helped us through some difficult moments during the pregnancy with characteristic care and love. No-one who spent any time with him could be in any doubt about his love and passion for his family, his work and his friends. He laughed loudly, was generous in spirit and soul, and gave so much to others. We will miss him.  Andrew

Sangeeta Mittal29 Nov 2023

Mr. Mascarenhas you were the absolute best. We all loved your guidance and cool inspiring approach to training your juniors. I will never forget the hilarious stories you made us laugh out loud and nearly choke on Nandos in Streatham which you’d treat us to after the clinic around the corner. You were the kindest funniest coolest colleague and friend. You made the world a way better place to be in. A decade on from when I left Tommy’s, I still laugh when I retell anybody your stories. Thank you for bringing my nephews into the world. With best wishes and deepest condolences to your family and loved ones. Sangeeta Mittal.

Yulia Badior29 Nov 2023

I have known Lawrence for less than a year but have been so lucky to share so many wonderful moments with him and the family. He has become a very dear person to me, like a father.  I adore his adventurous spirit, kindness and great sense of humour.  I remember him crossing the rivers on the safari trip that no one else would dare to cross, admiring animals like a child and filling the room with his contagious laughter, telling us unbelievable stories of his life.  I will always be grateful for everything he has done for us, for his company, for his generous support, guidance, but most of all for delivering our baby just a few weeks ago.  Dear Lawrence, you will always be loved and remembered ❤️ Dear Joyce and the family, we keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Camella30 Nov 2023

So sorry to hear of Lawrence’s passing. He was part of the furniture at GSTT and will be greatly missed. We all have a funny story about an interaction with Lawrence who cared greatly about patients and staff. Love and prayers to all his family and friends at this sad time.

Basma Hassabo30 Nov 2023

Mr. M was not just a great doctor nor just an amazing mentor, he was one of last most genuine and loving people existing on earth. Oh! The kindness he had in his heart, would lighten up the whole place!  Mr.M, no words can describe how much you mean to me. You were a friend, my guide, you were like a father. Thank you for always being there and making the good times better and making the hard times easy. I am forever thankful to have had you in my life and you will always have a special place in my heart.       As sad as I am that you have left us, I am sure that you’re in a better place. I will really miss you Mr. M.   

Sarah30 Nov 2023

Mon cher Lawrence, Ton rire communicatif, ces heures passées à refaire le monde (surtout la France), ta passion et ton dévouement pour tes patientes (à en oublier continuellement tes clés de voiture et ton manteau) mais aussi et surtout ton amour pour ta famille et Lola, ton adorable et fidèle compagne, l’équipe française de St Thomas’ est bien vide sans toi. Reposes en paix, nous avons beaucoup de chance de t’avoir eu dans nos vies. De tout coeur avec vous, sa chère famille et proches, mes sincères condoléances.

Kathiuska Kriedt3 Dec 2023

I’m deeply sorry for the loss of Mr LM who played such a significant role in my life here in the UK. His impact on my career and love for football is a lasting legacy. My condolences to his family during this difficult time.

Harry Karpouzis3 Dec 2023

Mr Mascarenhas . The best !  You were not only, a mentor,  who impacted grossly ,  my so far career in the Obs & Gyn field.  You were also  , a role model in life !  Things that I have been taught by you  , just by watching you , act and behave at Tommy’ s corridors, were more important, than all the things that you have taught me, in the surgical & Obstetrics field.  Lawrence was genuine and loving!   He had an Amazing sense of humour ! He was always passing positive vibes, to people, that surrounded him .  He was the person, that had the charisma, to move obstacles , just by his huge smile !  He taught us all , to move on and never look back. To believe in our skills and to take advantage of what God or luck , will bring in front of us . Not to miss chances!  You will always have a special place in my heart. I feel privileged I have worked , under your guidance.  I ll also miss lots , our footbal and Man U , talks .  I hope you did not decide to go now , that Man u , could not even be watched !  You will be greatly missed by everybody Lawrence ! Wishing courage and lots of love at this time of sorrow to the family!

Marco3 Dec 2023

Eternal rest grant unto Lawrence, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen ❤️ Marco Valentina and the Girls

Jemima Doku4 Dec 2023

Dearest Lawrence, It is so hard for me to accept your departure. but I find comfort in a line of a hymn which says that the things in life I cannot alter I will leave it in the hands of Jesus. .I feel so privileged that you were a Big star in my career . You will always be in my heart. You were blessed with many wonderful qualities. You were kind , generous, fun to be and work with . There was so much laughter whenever we met. Thank you for all that you did for me and also for the Midwives , MSWs , housekeeping staff on the Westminster Maternity Suite. We all miss you . so much .It is my prayer that the Almighty God will preserve your soul and bless Joyce and your succeeding generations. With love Jemima

Tony Sheen14 Dec 2023

We were very sorry to hear of Lawrence’s passing. We were grateful to him for his service as a CAFOD volunteer over the years. Through speaking on our behalf at Masses you helped to raise awareness of our work at Family Fast Days. God Bless RIP. Tony Sheen CAFOD

Miriam McEneaney14 Dec 2023

I never actually met Lawrence but I spoke with him on numerous occasions regarding Cafod work. I know he was a very busy man and yet he was always willing to help. May he rest in peace. Miriam McEneaney

Aneta18 Dec 2023

My sincere condolences to the family of Lawrence. May the God be always with you. God Bless Aneta

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Funeral Details

Location
Westminster Cathedral
Date
28/11/2023
Time
10:30am
Officiant
Father Witon, Cathedral Dean

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