Lois Pain

Mum, I still can’t believe you are gone, I can’t find the words to explain how lost I feel. Thank you to every one for your lovely words and support. Xxx

To my beautiful, silly mama, I love you and will miss you but thinking about you makes me warm and happy. You’re a big shiny star and I know you’re at peace. Rest now. I’ll have to get someone else to laugh at my misfortunes! Many thanks to all of the family and friends for your calls, messages and sharing your stories about mum. Love to you all ❤️

My gorgeous girl – fun, feisty, irrepressible and often totally bonkers. You were there for me for one of the most difficult and emotional times of my life and I am always in your debt for that. I cannot believe you are gone – see you again on the other side darling xxxxx

The life that I had was all that I had And the life that I had was yours The love that I have for the life that I had Is yours and your and yours A sleep we shall have a rest we shall have Yet death will be but a pause For the years that we spend in the long green grass Will be yours and yours.. My beautiful Honky Tonk woman. ALWAYS XXXXXX

My sister from another mother xxx

The world will be a duller place without you. Shine bright, my beautiful wacky sister. Love and miss you xxx

Lois was a lovely lady who so full of fun and warmth. Sending kindest thoughts to all her family and loved ones xx

Lovely Lois – laughing is how I shall remember you. You were a laugh out loud lady – always good fun and great to be with. Loving, warm and generous. William & Ted remember fun times at your flat when we all came for haircuts years ago… I remember the cat litter in the bath! And, WHY was it I was commissioned to take Zoe & Morgan one day…. naughty girl! Love you, will never forget you, keep laughing Lois. XXX

Lois,I will miss your smiling face.Every time the family and friends got together your happy soul was a joy to see.Even though i was Carl best friend.You always made me feel welcome when we got together.I will miss you.Rest In Peace.

So sad to hear this news today, My friend from bygone years. We shared each others blues away, Whilst laughing through our tears. Rest now. Love from Nick.

I don’t know what was more colourful, her dress sense, her decorating or her language. She welcomed me to the family with open arms and her support in hard times meant a lot to me. Lois – I was lucky to have you as a mother-in-law, but you weren’t just my mother-in-law, you were my friend and I miss you. But the world is pinker and more hilarious for your time in it. Don’t worry, be happy xxx.

My darling girl I don’t know how to do this without you, we’ve been together through good times and bad and somehow always managed to laugh. Heli and I will carry on being crazy in your name. I have a million memories and everyday think I must tell Lois that…..Rest peacefully my beautiful crazy friend, I love you. Until the next time ❤️❤️

Lois, I have never forgotten all the things you did for me when I was younger and a little lost. You took me in as your own and showed me so much love. Memories of you and your beautiful girls I always cherish xx thank You lots of love to Zoe and Morgan that’s one amazing Mum you had there thank you for sharing her with me back then xx Nik xx

Lois ! This is my second attempt- the first one disappeared maybe you didn’t want giving away some of our funny memories and worked your magic! This time I’ll share less ish! So – as I was saying before you intervened – we met about 15 years ago at Greenwich ambulance station where you cleaned and made ready our ambulances to your amazing high standard! On nights you and I got talking more and more then decided we actually liked each other and how similar we were – crazy / caring/ live life to the max and loving anything that was fun ! Then you mentioned your love of pink ! I wasn’t a fan at all – but your retirement drinks I bought a pink top (the only one I still own) over the years we became good friend my first visit to pink palace .. wow just wow! Your culinary skills were amazing pink quiche a first for everything! We have drunk wine (pink of course!) laughed until the tears ran down our legs – I was there for your bad times – the tiny telegram I sent always to remind you how loved you were) and you my darling were there for me.. as you were for everyone. I’ll miss our random 2am messages when we both had our insomnia-our crazy phone conversations that always started “normal” then soon turned into another crazy conversation – we’d be banned from facebook if they had been on there! The morning after you passed the sky was electric pink the pinkest it’s ever been so many people taking pics posting images ! That’s when I knew you’d arrived safely upstairs and was already making your mark! my darling Lois you were loved by so many xx I know I’m my heart you’ll be watching over us all with love and pride xx save me a seat next to you for when it’s my turn to come upstairs .. until the keep painting those skies pink xx love you xxx

Auntie Lois, Thank you for being such fun and always such a joy to be around. I have the best childhood memories of the parties and family times, you certainly taught us a few words as kids!! I’ll miss your laughter, smile and genuine warmth. Rest peacefully. Lots of love from all of us xxxx

You would always make wherever you were just so much more fun. We were lucky to have grown up such a hilarious and caring Auntie. Thank you for being such a loving part of the family. I loved the times that I would visit Nannie and you’d be there. And the Christmas we spent with you will always be one of my favourites. We all miss you very much. Lots of love. xxxx

Rest in peace Lovely Lady. Our thoughts are with your family and friends today xxxx

Aunty Lois, You will be sorely missed by us all. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories!! I remember coming to you for haircuts as a little girl, your distinctive laugh, the fun we would have at family parties, your warmth and hugs. And of course the naughty jokes No doubt you’re having a good time up there causing mischief x Love you always ❤️