Mark Chelvan-Stanmore

Mark and I went to the London 2012 Olympics Opening Ceremony dress rehearsal. He was wonderful company and we had a really fun time together. Such a kind and warm man. He will be much missed.

Happy memories of dropping off LALY20 awards bundle to Mark and Chelvan’s during height of lockdown. Naturally, we managed to combine delivery of the papers with a cheeky, socially-distanced, covid-regs compliant drink…(Equally naturally, Mark brought Nomos and Veritas down to join us a few minutes later.)

Mark was fun, kind, smart, always amenable and sympathetic. Mark and Chelvs illuminated many of my birthday parties throughout the years. We’ll miss you sorely, dear Mark. I’ve always admired both of you for your principles, sociability, triumphs… and of course your own parties! Rest in peaceX

Remembering a beautiful day with beautiful people surrounded by your love.

So many lovely memories of dear, unique Mark keep flooding back. He had an eye for beauty, a love of life, a sense of mischief and of fun. You two were an amazing couple and the live you shared will sustain you never forget, you carry his heart in your heart and always will.

Mark was my most dearest friend and neighbour of 22 years…His twinkling eyes, the kindness in his heart and his zest for life illuminated any room that he walked into. One half of a very dear couple will forever be missed but never forgotten Fond Easter memories from April 2023

As a university friend of Chelvan’s I’ve known Mark ever since he came into Chelvan’s life. So many happy memories of time spent with him and Chelvan. This was celebrating my wife’s 40th birthday, sat outside at the Gilbert Scott in St Pancras. This is how I will remember Mark, impeccably (yet somehow effortlessly) dressed, glass of wine to hand, engaging friendly, talkative, always fun to spend time with. He and Chelvan were so different in some ways and yet so perfectly complementary. Rest in peace Mark, we will miss you!

Mark is one of the most beautiful human beings I have ever known- inside and out. We are all blest to have had him in our lives. He was so thoughtful of others, unassuming, and yet incisive in his observations, and a great listener. I think he understood instinctively what makes a great partnership – and Mark and Chelvan made a wonderful couple together. There was always a lot of love and laughter in their house – and always great clothes! I remember meeting my friend Cristina at King’s Cross station one January morning, to collect my daughter’s birthday cake which Cristina had kindly agreed to make – and we bumped into Chelvan and Mark. And Cristina and I could not stop gushing about this sartorially- elegant couple, and especially, Mark’s immaculate winter coat!

Mark was such a loving and warm-hearted person, always understanding and looking at the bright side of things. I have many fond memories of gatherings with him and Chelvs.

I can’t get over your gentle soul and loving smile, Mark. You used to check up on me so regularly such that, since you’ve passed, I periodically go to check my Twitter inbox to see if you’ll send me a text or two with those soothing words of encouragement of yours. I miss you Mark. Remember that you are loved dearly. Last year’s Christmas card that you sent to me on behalf of Chelvan and yourself, for whatever reason, has been on my shelf since 2023, December. It will remain there. Love to you Chelvan and I hope that you find the fortitude to carry on. Everyone in the African Rainbow Family passes their condolence on, Chelvan. Thank you for choosing the African Rainbow Family as the charity of choice for donations in the sweet memory of our Mark. Rest in Peace, Mark.

Mark was a wonderful beautiful gentleman and you could clearly see that Chelvan and him were soulmates, a beautiful couple together & a love that not everyone finds. Mark was a person who immediately put you ease and you warmed too instantly, he also had a wonderful sense of style. I have lovely memories of celebrating Christian and my wedding with Mark & Chelvan in 2018 and joining in the celebration of your beautiful wedding. It’s hard to believe you are gone Mark, rest in peace and you will not be forgotten, Maria, Christian & Olivia x

So many wonderful memories over 23 years – from morning walks along the canal to late evenings in and out. The kindest of souls and a sharp wit. Mark is dearly missed.

Mark’s words of encouragement and advice helped to prepare me for a very difficult asylum interview: He provided wisdom clothed in poetry. My deepest condolences pour out to Dr Chelvan and the whole family for this profound loss.

Lost for words at the suddenness of your passing. Mark – quietly powerful. Always welcoming and supportive. Remember the first time we met when you welcomed me into your home when I came to visit. Cherish the memories of your visit to Sydney, esp. running out of petrol on our way back from wine tasting in the Hunter Valley. You rolled your eyes somewhat bemused as nearly getting stranded in the middle of nowhere! RIP my friend knowing that we will always carry you in our hearts. Xo Navs and Bineet

Mark was a gentle soul and man, a gentleman, Chelvan’s Mark, but also an activist, a man deeply in love with Chelvan and so supportive of him and who had so much to look forward to and to offer to his other half, his family and his community. Mark will be missed. He leaves a huge hole behind him. I feel privileged to have met him. I remember his warm welcome the first time I met him and his shepherd’s pie (my first one), as well as his flowers welcoming me home when I came out of hospital. All our love. You are in our hearts always.

Mark, I’m so shocked and saddened by your passing.  It was an absolute pleasure to have known you. To not only be your hairstylist, but your friend for over 15 years. Thank you for all the chats, laughs and support. You were the most wonderful, ALWAYS stylish, gentleman in the room.   I will miss you dearly.  Rest in heaven darling.  Claire Xx

Mark always had a smile and was the friendliest neighbor you could have. Marks was always soft-spoken and a true gentleman. We enjoyed occasional chats, and he always updated us on Rufford Mews. He will be greatly missed, and we are still shocked that this has happened.

I wish you again my condolences, as the anniversary of your jubilant wedding and the date of the poignant memorial service approaches. Mark was conversational and colourful; he’s much missed especially at this time.