Simon Hartley

In Loving Memory

Simon Hartley

Born
22 September 1959
Passed
9 October 2025
Lived In
London
Simon, as our partner, father, son, brother and grandad will be deeply missed by us all. He leaves a big hole in all our lives. We are extremely grateful for all the outpouring of support, love, well wishes, flowers, cards and memories you’ve shared, it gives us great comfort to know how loved he was. For anyone attending the funeral, we’d like to extend our deepest gratitude in advance.

Simon's Life Story

Born
22 September 1959
Passed
9 October 2025
Lived In
London
Simon was the ultimate BFG (Big Friendly Giant) - he was a daddy longlegs, skinny all his life with a chiseled jaw (his son got that gene!) but he was also kind, gentle, intelligent, articulate, passionate about things close to his heart and loving. He could tell the best stories with the sharpest wit. He was a devoted teacher and loved teaching kids PE in particular, all the kids loved him back. He was a details orientated perfectionist who loved all his cats from Benny and Choo Choo to Sid and Mungo. He was a keen walker and used to go on lovely long walks on a Sunday with Zoe and with his children in the Lakes.

He was well travelled with fond memories in Italy in particular and an avid life-long Bolton fan. We have it in writing that one of his wants in life was for Bolton to win the Champions League with Lionel Messi as captain.

He was an absolute Strictly Come Dancing fanatic and something that made Saturday nights special with Zoe.

His favourite snacks were chocolate buttons mixed with salted peanuts, biscoff biscuits, cheesy and hot Doritos and Tuc sandwich crackers. He also loved the days of making ultimate nachos with Rachel and has cooked for his family throughout his life. He hated suits and roast dinners!

He was a very proud Grandad to two little boys (and soon to be a third!) who will miss him terribly but Jason and Rachel will keep his memory alive through stories of their childhood.

He leaves behind a partner Zoe, his two children Jason and Rachel, a brother Michael, his mother Sylvia, his ex partner Jude and his two grandsons but he remains in our hearts forever.

Funeral Details

Islington Crematorium

06/11/2025

1:15pm

Officiant: Viv Thomas

Dress Code: Please don’t feel you have to wear black or come particularly formal. Simon was not a formal man and he hated suits so please smartly dressed but not in suits.

Wake

The Elephant Inn, 283 Ballards Lane, Finchley, London, N12 8NR

Memories

Condolences & Memories

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Eileen (Miss Mc!)17 Oct 2025

Sincere condolences to you all. Simon was a kind, empathetic, intelligent and extremely witty man. It was my privilege to have met him as his children’s teacher, then a mentor when he trained and a valued colleague as part of our Year 6 Team. So many happy memories, laughs during school journey and stories of hilarious incidents during some lessons. It is so, so hard to believe he has left this mortal world. Simon you were an inspiration, a compassionate soul and a good friend. You will be missed. Rest in Peace. Xx

Ashley Jones17 Oct 2025

I worked with Simon for a number of years and even bunked with him and Jude when I was homeless for a while. Fantastic man with a matchless wit. Kind, generous, the best company. I can’t believe he’s gone. My deepest condolences. He leaves a big hole in the lives of others.

John Mitchell17 Oct 2025

So sorry to hear of Simon’s passing . Thoughts and condolences to all his family.

Zoe17 Oct 2025

Simon, I miss you more than words can say. Rest in peace my love and be free ❤️❤️

Dorrie17 Oct 2025

RIP lovely Simon – clever, funny, gorgeous, and ever kind. I will always remember you – the music, the walks, the stories, the suppers. It was so good to see you in Herefordshire in recent years – seeing you pick up the cricket bat with Jason and hearing your typically dry take on the pundits at Hay. XXX

Claire Allaway17 Oct 2025

Very sad to hear about Simon’s death. We have fond memories from the early years of raising our kids and sharing nannies! Our kindest thoughts go to Jason and Rachel and all the family

Mike Hilton20 Oct 2025

Many great memories of Senior School friendship and nights out in Bolton back in the day. Sincere condolences to all concerned..sleep well Si.

Daniela31 Oct 2025

There are moments in life we ​​never want to experience! Unfortunately, we must accept them with pain and tears. My condolences go to you, dearest Jason, Rachel, and Judith. I cherish the beautiful moments we shared with Simon that I will never forget His intelligence, politeness, patience, and his ability to speak Italian well, better than my English!!! Stay strong, I’m holding you close, I love you with the same affection as always ❤️”

Nadia1 Nov 2025

Dear Simon, Judith first introduced us in Sheffield, back when you were still in college, and from that moment on we remained friends. How many happy days we shared together — your holidays with us in Italy and ours with you in London… such wonderful memories. We had so many beautiful conversations, talking about politics, society, history, art, and of course sports with Franco. With your intelligence, culture, and sense of humor, it was always a joy to be with you. You learned Italian so well — you thought you had forgotten it, but when we saw you again in November after so many years, you started speaking as if no time had passed. We were all deeply moved and so grateful for that meeting, for it gave us the chance to hug you once more — and for the last time. Fly high, dear Simon. Fly wherever your heart takes you.

Peter Walton3 Nov 2025

My sincere condolences to the family. It’s the saddest of goodbyes to a great lifelong friend – one of the funniest, warmest and nicest people you could ever meet. RIP Simon, taken from us far too soon.

Nigel Bradley5 Nov 2025

University and the years after seem such a long time ago now Si but I will always remember the close friendship we had and the times we shared together. My thoughts and deepest sympathy to all of Si’s family.

Mark Dakeyne6 Nov 2025

Our thoughts and sympathy are with Si’s family. We are sorry that we cannot be at today’s funeral to send him off. We had a great friendship over many years. I’m sorry we lost contact in the last decade or so. Some particular moments to share: The smoky back bar at the Howcroft, enjoying a few pints and arrows; Going to see The Cure and The Fall at Hulme Community Centre with a few hundred other brave souls; Our Inter Rail trip around Europe with an early highlight, a 15 hour session in Hamburg finishing off at the harbour at the fishermen’s bar for a breakfast beer; Ponytrekking in the Black Mountains and wedding crashing at the Baskerville Arms; Searching out a pub that was open on Halliwell Road on Christmas Day. Rest in peace Mark and Lee Dakeyne

Jim Foulerton6 Nov 2025

I only met Simon a handful of times in the early 90s through his brother Mick, but could tell immediately what a lovely guy he was. And a real gentleman. We all went to the 1992 European Cup final at Wembley, sadly not involving Bolton Wanderers but instead Barcelona and Sampdoria. Barca won the trophy for the first time, with a young Pep Guardiola in midfield. We were all young then! Simon was a good looking dude like his brother and was on fine form. What a lovely tribute you have put together and my sympathies to all of Simon’s family xx

Simon Hewitt8 Nov 2025

Si was a dear and close friend from the age of 16. We shared so many wonderful, funny and crazy memories. We laughed at the same comedians, shared the same music, supported the same team, played in the same team, holidayed together. When we first met all those years ago an unbreakable bond was created between us and whilst we didn’t see each other as much as we should have that bond has remained securely in place. I will cherish those wonderful memories forever. Sleep well Si x

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Funeral Details

Location
Islington Crematorium
Date
06/11/2025
Time
1:15pm
Officiant
Viv Thomas

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