In Memory Of


Gheury de Bray




Personal note

A personal note from the family

The family wishes to extend deep gratitude to all, for your condolence messages and offers of support.

Stella was much loved by all her friends and family.  We shall come together to love and honour her on Monday 15th May, as we celebrate her life.  Feel free to wear an outfit of colour, if you wish.  Please arrive at 13:00 ready for a 13:20 service commencement.  

RSVP:  It would be helpful to know the number of guests in terms of progressing the service arrangements and with respect to organising a gathering after the service.  Please could you email Andrew de Bray ( and Lara Strickland ( to advise if you are able to attend, by Friday 21st April.

For those that cannot attend the service in person, the service will be webcast.  Please scroll down the web page to view the access details for the webcast.

SHARING MEMORIES & PHOTOS:  Please do feel free to share any memories you have of Stella as we all have different experiences to share.  If you are aware that Stella had any favourite music, or flowers, please share this too.  Additionally, any photos you have of Stella would be welcome as there will be a photo montage during the service.  Where possible, we will incorporate some of the memories and contributions in the service to celebrate Stella’s life.  To share a memory and/or photos, please scroll down the page.

CHARITABLE DONATION IN LIEU OF FLOWERS:  Stella died unexpectedly, the root cause being a Deep Vein Thrombosis.  In lieu of flowers, if you would like to make a donation to the charity Thrombosis UK, please click on the JustGiving link on this page.


Gheury de Bray




funeral details

Funeral For Stella

The funeral will be held at Mortlake Crematorium

Funeral starts at 13:20

on Monday 15th May 2023

The funeral will be led by Becky Lee

Information for Attendees

Guests are welcome to wear an outfit of colour.

Please arrive at 13:00 ready for a 13:20 service commencement.

Note that this is an earlier time than previously communicated.  There is a waiting room where guests can gather and greet each other before moving into the service room.

Funeral Wake Details

The reception after the service will be held at The Coach & Horses Hotel, 8 Kew Green, Kew Richmond, TW9 3BH.

The venue is a 5 minute drive from the Crematorium.  There is some parking on site.  Additional metered street parking is available.

If there are any dietary requirements (other than vegetarian) please email Lara at by Thursday 4th May please so the venue can be advised.




About Stella's Life

About their life…


How to access the funeral live webcast

You can access the live webcast by clicking the button below and logging in using the Username and Password provided. Please allow plenty of time before the service to login. The webcast will begin approximately 5 minutes before the funeral start time.

Username:​ yidi3937

Password: 826895

Funeral fLowers

Send Flowers For The Funeral

Please contact the team on the number below to order flowers for the funeral. We can discuss what you are looking for and will hand write a message for the card. You will then be able to pay with your card once all completed.

  • Hearts


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  • Sheaves


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  • Sympathy Bouquets


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  • Posies


    A selection of floral posies. Approximate sizes are:

    • Original Height: 20cm, Width: 30cm
    • Deluxe Height: 25cm, Width: 35cm
    • Grand Height: 25cm, Width: 40cm

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  • Baskets


    A beautiful range of sympathy baskets. Approximate sizes include:

    • Original Width: 20cm, Length: 30cm
    • Deluxe Width: 35cm, Length: 20cm
    • Grand Width: 20cm, Length: 45cm

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Planning For The Future

In Memory Of Life is a local independent funeral directors and we can help you to plan for the future by setting up a bespoke funeral plan


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The funeral will be held on

On Monday 15th May 2023

From 13:20

At Mortlake Crematorium

Led by Becky Lee