About Us

About Us Meet the in memory of life team

As an independent and family run funeral business, we treat each of our families as if you are our own. We pride ourselves on our care for your loved one, exceptional funeral arrangements and our dedication to creating the farewell you are looking for. We are kind, compassionate and aim to make the process simpler for you so that you can focus on what is important.

Funeral Conductors

The primary role of a Funeral Conductor is to ensure that everything runs smoothly and as planned for the funeral. On the day, you will be greeted by one of our Conductors, John, Alex, Dean, Donna, Brian or Martin. Your conductor, recognisable with a top hat and cane, will be your main point of contact and will compassionately guide you and all attendees through the day. Each of our conductors are highly experienced and will answer any of your questions as well as providing instruction to our team or family members who choose to carry the coffin.

Funeral Support Staff

Our funeral support team will bring your loved one into our mortuary care using our specialist private ambulance vehicles. We will respectfully follow your instructions for their care which may include embalming, dressing in their own clothes, make-up, shaving, hair-styling or any other requests that you may have.

On the day of the funeral, our team of professional pallbearers (coffin bearers) and chauffeurs will be there to support you together with your Conductor and any officiant you have chosen for the day. Our team will always be immaculately dressed in matching smart uniforms. If you wish, you can also request less traditional attire for our funeral team too.

Funeral Arrangement Team

We will patiently and compassionately guide you through each stage of the arrangement process. Our aim is to make the process as simple as possible for you and to give you the freedom to make the choices you need, whilst having plenty of time to focus on planning the service content with your chosen officiant. We will always be led by you and your choices, working tirelessly to ensure we make each of your requests possible for the funeral.

Matt Stafford

Funeral Arranger

Megan Pownall

Funeral Arranger

Kate Mercer

Funeral Arranger

Michelle Pike

Funeral Arranger

Harriet Gilbert

Funeral Arranger

transparent Prices, no Deposits

We aim to provide you with complete transparency around all costs to ensure there are no surprises. Our quote builder allows you to see easily select the options that are right for you including a comparison of local crematorium or cemetery options

Cremation Funeral

From £2,595

Burial Funeral

From £2,595

Simple Cremation

From £1,899

Cremation Funeral

45 Min Service At Crematorium TBC

Service Fees

The length of the service and the capacity of the venue will vary with each crematorium. You do not have to go to your nearest and we can help you choose the right location across Greater London, including options to hold the service at an alternative venue

Cremation Fee TBC

Crematorium Fees

Each Crematorium will also charge a fee for the cremation to take place. You can view all of the different options and prices below

Mortuary Care & Viewing £995

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
Care for their personal effects following your instructions

Funeral ArrangementSupport £595

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request

Simple Wood Effect Coffin £435

The Morpeth

A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate

Funeral Conductor £270

Funeral Conductor

Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.

Traditional Funeral Hearse £300

Traditional Funeral Hearse

A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only

Funeral Flowers

We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist

Funeral Officiant

Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing

Service Booklets

Order of Service Booklets

We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt

Total

From £2,595

Burial Funeral

Grave Purchase Fee TBC

Grave Purchase Fees

If you do not already own a grave with space for a new burial, you will need to purchase the deeds to the plot of land. There are typically different prices for residents and non residents in each area however we can guide you through this process. You can view options and prices below

Grave Digging Fee TBC

Grave Preparation Fees

On the day of the funeral, the cemetery team will need to dig and prepare the grave space ready for the burial. There is a charge from the cemetery for this and will vary wit each location. You can view options and prices below

Mortuary Care & Viewing £995

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
Care for their personal effects following your instructions

Funeral ArrangementSupport £595

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request

Simple Wood Effect Coffin £435

The Morpeth

A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate

Funeral Conductor £270

Funeral Conductor

Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.

Traditional Funeral Hearse £300

Traditional Funeral Hearse

A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only

Funeral Flowers

We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist

Funeral Officiant

Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing

Service Booklets

Order of Service Booklets

We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt

Total

From £2,595

Simple Cremation

Funeral Without a Service

A Simple Cremation

A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.

Cremation Fee Included

Crematorium Fees

Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place

Ambulance & Mortuary Care

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
Washing and preparation for cremation
Care for their personal effects following your instructions

Funeral Arrangement Support

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option

Simple Wood Effect Coffin

The Morpeth

A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate

Funeral Transporation

On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel

Viewing Your Loved One £400

Private Chapel of Rest

Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing

Hand Delivery of Ashes £150

Return Of The Ashes

Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you

Total

From £1,899

Medical Education Body Donation

In Memory Of Life are extremely proud to partner with the University of London to provide funeral services for those who donate their bodies to medical education throughout the south east of England. Read more below including how to donate your own body.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I see my loved one before the funeral?

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Do I have to pay a deposit or any up front payments?

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Do you offer payment plans for the funeral?

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Do you accept applicants with a government DWP Funeral Grant?

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

What options do you have for a Greener funeral?

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

How much will a funeral cost?

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

Can I plan ahead and pay for my funeral in advance?

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

About Us Meet the in memory of life team

Funeral Conductors

Funeral Support Staff

Funeral Arrangement Team

Matt Stafford

Megan Pownall

Kate Mercer

Michelle Pike

Harriet Gilbert

transparent Prices, no Deposits

Cremation Funeral

From £2,595

Burial Funeral

From £2,595

Simple Cremation

From £1,899

Cremation Funeral

Burial Funeral

Simple Cremation

Medical Education Body Donation

Frequently Asked Questions

How Can We Help?

Useful Links

Our Services

Contact Us

Care For Your Loved One

We take great pride in our mortuary care facilities and your loved one will always be treated with the upmost care and respect. We will coordinate their according to your wishes, including:

Funeral Administration

We are here to ensure the process of organising your loved one's funeral is as simple and stress-free as possible. Our team will always be on hand via phone, email or whatsapp message to answer any questions and specifically we will help with the:

The Venue

Where you choose to hold the service for your loved one is a personal choice and you may not be aware there are many options to choose between including:

Funeral Officiant

A funeral officiant will help you to plan and create the service content for your love one’s funeral. They will spend time listening to you, learning about your loved one and building a structure for the day. We can help you to find a suitable a person. This may be a:

The Funeral Wake

Funeral Choices

There are so many ways to personalise a funeral and to make sure that it reflects the life and choices of your loved one. Our team will help you with every aspect of the arrangement including choices for:

The Ceremony

Order Of Service Templates

We will design and print beautiful order of services for you. You can take a look at the range of designs below

Estate Administration

Please let the team know if you would like support or advice with the administration of your loved one's estate. We can provide you with advice if the affairs are more straightforward or we can also connect you with expert legal professionals if the administration is more complex .

The Ceremony

Typically a service of between 30 - 60 minute will take place in a chapel prior to the cremation or burial. For the service, we will help to coordinate: