Families in Shirley and throughout the area trust us for our compassion, professionalism, and meticulous attention to detail. We have helped hundreds of local families navigate through some of life’s most challenging moments, providing reassurance and support. Our reputation as a funeral parlour reflects care, reliability, and the comfort of knowing you’re in capable hands.
At In Memory Of Life, we proudly serve families in Shirley and Croydon, including Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, and Coulsdon. As an established funeral home, we provide compassionate services rooted in local knowledge and dignity. Our team assists families with arrangements at West Norwood Crematorium and Mitcham Road Cemetery, guiding them through the process of registering a death at the Croydon registry office or finding appropriate venues for wakes, like The Oval Tavern or Leonardo Hotel London Croydon. With a rich diversity of faiths in the area, we collaborate with religious organizations such as Biserica ortodoxă română – Parohia Buna Vestire şi Sf. Apostol Iacob and UCKG HelpCentre – Croydon, respecting and honoring every tradition. Whatever your farewell preferences, we are dedicated to providing support and care at this difficult time.
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily
At In Memory Of Life, we proudly serve families throughout Shirley and Croydon, including Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, and Coulsdon. As an independent service, we combine compassion and local expertise. Our team assists families with arrangements at Lambeth Crematorium and offers guidance on registering deaths at the Croydon registry office and finding welcoming venues for wakes. Enriched with diverse faiths and traditions, we work closely with local religious organizations such as the Local Polish Catholic Mission and Shree Ghanapathy Temple, Wimbledon, ensuring all customs are respected. No matter how you wish to say goodbye, we’re here to help with understanding and care.
The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.
If you prefer a traditional farewell, many families in Shirley choose formal funerals with a black hearse and a dignified service that honours time-honoured customs. Our team can assist with arrangements at local churches such as Our Lady of the Annunciation, Addiscombe, crematoriums, and cemeteries, ensuring that every detail aligns with your family’s wishes.
We take great pride in personalising each funeral and helping families create meaningful tributes that reflect their loved one’s life. This could involve selecting a unique venue in Shirley, arranging special transportation like a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, or incorporating heartfelt elements such as themed flowers or music. Whatever your vision may be, our team collaborates closely with you to realise it.
Our team supports families across Croydon with all local cremation and burial venues, including South London Crematorium, Beckenham Cemetery (private) or Greenlawn Memorial Park. Burial costs can be complex, but families can expect around £5,724.00 for a resident burial in Shirley, plus additional funeral director fees, and £5,716.00 for a non-resident burial, including grave leases from 50 years and options for internments. For those considering cremation, prices start from £490 for an early morning service or £1,000 for a later service, again plus necessary funeral director expenses. We coordinate directly with any chosen location, managing bookings and logistics seamlessly. Families can also trust us to provide guidance on timings, facilities available and relevant local regulations, ensuring that the day runs smoothly and with the utmost respect throughout the entire process.
You’ll be supported by our small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness, empathy, and meticulous attention to detail. We’re an independent, family-run business, focused on making the funeral planning process as easy and stress-free as possible, allowing you to concentrate on what matters most during this difficult time.
Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.
No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.
We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.
Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.
You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments
At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.
The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below
We provide funeral director services throughout Shirley and Croydon, including within Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, Coulsdon, Forestdale, Kenley, New Addington, Norbury, Old Coulsdon, Purley, Riddlesdown, Sanderstead, Selhurst, Selsdon, South Croydon, South Norwood, Thornton Heath, Upper Norwood, Waddon and Woodside. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral home in any other boroughs, including Kingston upon Thames, Lambeth, Merton, Richmond Upon Thames, Sutton and Wandsworth, then please get in touch.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.
