Families in Bexley trust us for our compassion, professionalism, and attention to detail. We’ve helped hundreds of local families through some of life’s most difficult moments, providing reassurance and support every step of the way. Our reputation as a funeral parlour is built on care, reliability, and the comfort of knowing you are in capable hands.
At In Memory Of Life, we take pride in serving the Bexley community, including areas like Abbey Wood, Albany Park, Barnehurst, and Barnes Cray. Our independently owned service blends compassion and dignity, drawing upon our deep knowledge of the local community. Families regularly seek our support for arranging services at Beckenham Crematorium and Kemnal Park Cemetery. We guide you in registering a death at the Bexley Registry Office (Danson House, Danson Park, Kent, DA6 8HL) and assist in finding accommodating venues for wakes, like Tanyard Lane Bar & Kitchen. With a diverse community featuring a total of 148,000 Christians, including various other faiths, we work to honour all traditions respectfully alongside local religious organisations such as Our Lady of the Angels Catholic Church and London England Temple. We are here to help you through every step with understanding and care.
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily
We serve right across Bexley, offering both cremation and burial funerals. Our experienced team provides clear local guidance and recommendations to ensure every detail is just right on the day. Anyone can hold a funeral at a crematorium, with crematorium prices starting around £3,345 for all funeral director services and a service at Bluebell Crematorium. Burial costs are complex with local burials typically reserved for residents of the borough. You can expect a burial funeral to be around £6,564 including funeral director services and a resident burial. If your loved one did not live in the borough, there are also options for private cemeteries, such as Kemnal Park Cemetery, which do not restrict based on residency. Whatever you choose, we’re here to help you plan with care and confidence.
The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.
If you prefer a traditional farewell, many families in Bexley appreciate a funeral marked by proper etiquette. This often involves formal attire, a black hearse, and respectful service that observe the customs we’ve held dear for generations. Our team is ready to assist with arrangements at local churches, such as Gateway Chapel, crematoriums, and cemeteries, ensuring every aspect feels personal, dignified, and true to your family’s wishes.
We take great pride in personalising every funeral and helping families create something that reflects their loved one’s life and personality. This could mean choosing an alternative venue in Bexley, arranging unique transportation such as a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, or adding thoughtful touches like themed flowers or music. Whatever you envision, our team will work closely with you to make it possible.
Our team supports families across Bexley with all local cremation and burial venues, specifically Beckenham Crematorium, Kemnal Park Cemetery (private), and Hillview Cemetery. Burial costs can vary; on average, you should expect to pay approximately £3,969.00 for a resident burial in Bexley and £7,938.00 for a non-resident, with grave leases available for 50 years and allowing for 2 internments. Alternatively, cremation services start from £750 for an early morning slot, while later options are priced at £810. We manage every aspect directly with your chosen venue, overseeing bookings and logistics and providing clear guidance on necessary timings, facilities, and applicable local regulations. Trust us to handle the details so that the day runs smoothly, honoring the memory of your loved one with dignity.
You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and meticulous attention to detail. As an independent, family-run organization, our primary aim is to make the process as straightforward as possible, allowing you to focus on what matters most during this challenging time.
Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.
No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.
We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.
Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.
You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments
At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.
The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below
We provide funeral director services throughout Bexley, including within Abbey Wood, Albany Park, Barnehurst, Barnes Cray, Belvedere, Bexleyheath, Blackfen, Blendon, Colyers, Crayford, Crook Log, Crossness, East Wickham, Erith, Falconwood, Foots Cray, Lamorbey, Lessness Heath, Longlands, North Cray, North End, Northumberland Heath, Ruxley, Sidcup, Slade Green, Thamesmead, Upper Ruxley, Upton, Welling, West Heath. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral home in any other boroughs, including Bromley, Greenwich, Lewisham and Southwark , then please get in touch.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.
