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Established Funeral Directors serving Purley & Nearby Areas

Losing someone is hard. We’re here to make things easier and simpler, so you can focus on your family at this difficult time. If you are looking for a respectful family-run funeral director in Purley, please get in touch.

Over 750 local families have trusted us

Families in Purley and beyond turn to us for our compassion, professionalism, and meticulous attention to each detail. Having guided countless local families through life’s toughest moments, we offer reassurance and unwavering support every step of the way. Our reputation as a dedicated funeral provider is founded upon reliability and the comfort of knowing you’re in capable hands.

Purley funeral parlour providing Dignified Funerals

At In Memory Of Life, we’re dedicated to supporting families throughout Purley and Croydon, including Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe and Coulsdon. As an established funeral home, we blend compassion and local expertise with an understanding of community dynamics. Our caring team frequently assists families in arranging services at West Norwood Crematorium and Mitcham Road Cemetery. We can also help you navigate the death registration process at the local Croydon registry office or nearby wake venues, like The Oval Tavern or Leonardo Hotel London Croydon. With a diverse community encompassing various faiths—including a Christian population of 7,848 (47%), Buddhists at 133 (1%), Hindus 1,303 (8%), Sikhs at 154 (1%), and Muslims at 1,440 (9%)—we liaise with local religious organisations like Biserica ortodoxă română – Parohia Buna Vestire şi Sf. Apostol Iacob and UCKG HelpCentre – Croydon, ensuring respectful adherence to customs and traditions. No matter how you wish to say goodbye, our team is here to support you with compassion and understanding.

Example Cremation Funeral Cost Near Purley

Cremation At Lambeth Crematorium
At Lambeth Crematorium, cremation services are offered for a 30-minute ceremony in the chapel from 8am to 9.30am at £490. Other time options are available, along with various alternative services at other crematoriums nearby. Please click below to explore all local options.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Lambeth Crematorium
£490
Funeral Director Services
£2,695
Total Funeral Cost
£3085

Typical Cost of A Burial Funeral Near Purley

Burial At Bandon Hill Cemetery
For residents of Croydon, it is possible to purchase a grave at Bandon Hill Cemetery for £1,607. This includes a lease for 50 years. There are also various other options available, including private cemeteries—click below to view all available options in your area.
The cemetery charges a fee for the preparation of the grave on the day of the funeral. This includes a cost of £1,251 for the preparation of the grave for up to 2 internments, ensuring everything is ready for the service.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Bandon Hill Cemetery Fees
£2858
Funeral Director Services
£2,595
Total Funeral Cost
£5453

Simple Cremation

Crematorium Fees
A Simple Cremation
A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.
Crematorium Fees
Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Washing and preparation for cremation
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel
Example Optional Extras
Private Chapel of Rest
Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing
Return Of The Ashes
Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you
Total
From £1,899

Could You Be Eligible For A DWP Funeral Expenses Payment?

The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily

Providing Cremations & Burials Across Purley & Nearby Areas

We proudly service the entirety of Croydon, offering local expertise and guidance to perfect every detail for the day. Our cremation services start at approximately £3,085, including all funeral director services at Lambeth Crematorium. Burial costs can be more complex, typically around £5,453 for a local resident burial, while private cemetery options are available for non-residents, including Beckenham Cemetery. Whatever your choice may be, our team is here to help navigate the planning process with care and assurance.

Cremation Funeral
from £3085
Burial Funeral
from £5453

Your family Arrangement Portal

Get access to a dedicated online portal to manage everything in one place — at your own pace and always guided by our team

Guided by our Team, every step

The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.

If you want to keep things Traditional...

Many families in Purley prefer the comfort of traditional funerals, characterized by formal attire, a black hearse, and a respectful service in line with enduring customs. Our team is here to assist with arrangements at local churches, such as the UCKG HelpCentre – Croydon, crematoriums, and cemeteries, ensuring that every detail feels personal and true to your family’s values.

If you want to go for something different...

We take pride in personalizing each funeral, helping families create a service that reflects their loved one’s spirit and personality. This may involve selecting alternative venues in Purley, arranging unique forms of transportation like a VW campervan or a horse-drawn carriage, or incorporating special touches such as themed flowers or music. Whatever your vision may be, our dedicated team will collaborate closely with you to bring it to life.

Crematoriums & Cemeteries Options For Purley

Our team supports families across Croydon with all local cremation and burial venues, including West Norwood Crematorium, Beckenham Cemetery (private), and Greenlawn Memorial Park. Burial costs can be complex; you can expect to pay around £5,724.00 for a resident burial in Purley—plus funeral director fees—and £5,716.00 for a non-resident burial, both including grave leases from 50 years and up to 1 interment. Cremation options start from £490 for an early morning service and £1,000 for a later service, excluding funeral director services. We will coordinate directly with chosen locations to manage bookings and logistics effectively, ensuring everything runs smoothly during this difficult time.

Small Team of Compassionate & Kind Funeral Arrangers

You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and meticulous attention to detail. As an independent, family-run service, our primary aim is to simplify the process for you, allowing you to focus on what matters most during this challenging time.

Supporting Local Families, Just Like You

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Yes, we can. As a local, family-run funeral directors, we know Purley and the surrounding areas of Croydon— from Croydon Clocktower and Bridge Training UK to the community streets of Kenley. Our team can help you arrange every detail of a funeral, including bookings at Croydon Crematorium or Queens Road Cemetery. Moreover, we can recommend welcoming venues for wakes, such as Mr Fox Croydon. We also connect families with reliable local florists and celebrants who appreciate the sensitivities of the occasion. With Christian Total 7848 (47%), Buddhist Total 133 (1%), Hindu Total 1303 (8%), Sikh Total 154 (1%), and Muslim Total 1440 (9%), we partner with faith organisations like Croydon Minster to ensure each service upholds cherished traditions. Whether your plans lean towards the traditional or more personalized, we’re dedicated to managing every detail, utilizing our knowledge of local transport routes and venue timings to ensure everything proceeds with dignity.
When someone passes, it can be challenging to determine the first steps, but we are here to guide you through each part of the process. If the death occurs at home, reach out to the GP or NHS 111 to have a doctor confirm the passing. If it happens at a hospital, such as Croydon University Hospital, staff there will issue a medical certificate and clarify any necessary follow-up. After obtaining this certificate, the death must be registered at the local office—typically the Croydon registry office. We can help you book an appointment or accompany you if needed. When you feel ready, please reach out to us anytime, day or night, and our compassionate team will bring your loved one into our care. We will clarify the required paperwork, assist with funeral arrangements, and ensure everything is handled with the utmost dignity and sensitivity, at a pace that feels comfortable for you.

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

We provide funeral director services throughout Purley and Croydon, including within Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, Coulsdon, Forestdale, Kenley, New Addington, Norbury, Old Coulsdon, Riddlesdown, Sanderstead, Selhurst, Selsdon, Shirley, South Croydon, South Norwood, Thornton Heath, Upper Norwood, Waddon and Woodside. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral home in any other boroughs, including Kingston upon Thames, Lambeth, Merton, Richmond Upon Thames, Sutton and Wandsworth, then please get in touch.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

All paperwork and administrative processes taken care of

When a person dies, the paperwork, admin and everything you need to do can feel overwhelming. We are here to take some of the pressure off and to try and make everything as simple as possible. Our support includes: