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Respectful Family-Run Funeral Directors in Selsdon

Losing someone is difficult, and we’re here to make things simpler for you. Our compassionate family-run funeral directors in Selsdon offer guidance and support at every step, so you can focus on cherishing your loved one. If you need assistance, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Trusted By over 750 Local Families

Families throughout Selsdon place their trust in us, relying on our genuine compassion, professionalism, and meticulous attention to detail. We’ve guided countless local families through challenging times, providing unwavering support and comfort along the way. Our esteemed reputation is built on reliability, care, and the comfort of knowing you’re in capable hands.

Trusted Family-Run funeral home serving Selsdon

At In Memory Of Life, we proudly serve families in Selsdon and Croydon, including Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, and Coulsdon. Our experienced team offers compassionate support paired with local expertise in coordinating services at South London Crematorium and Greenlawn Memorial Park. We assist families through the process of registering a death at the Croydon registry office or selecting wake venues like Porter and Sorter or Mr Fox Croydon. With a diverse community represented in various faiths, including Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Sikh, and Muslim, we ensure that traditions are honored respectfully by liaising with organizations such as New Life Croydon and Croydon Minster. We’re committed to assisting you with care and understanding as you navigate this journey.

Example Cremation Funeral Cost Near Selsdon

Cremation At Lambeth Crematorium
At Lambeth Crematorium, cremation services are offered for a 30-minute chapel service from 8 am to 9:30 am for £490. There are additional options available throughout the day at various crematoriums nearby. For a comprehensive list of local cremation options, please click below.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Lambeth Crematorium
£490
Funeral Director Services
£2,695
Total Funeral Cost
£3085

Typical Cost of A Burial Funeral Near Selsdon

Burial At Bandon Hill Cemetery
For residents of Croydon, a grave can be purchased at Bandon Hill Cemetery for £1,607, which includes a 50-year lease. Other burial options are also available, including private cemeteries; click below to explore all choices in your area.
The cemetery charges a fee for the preparation of the grave on the day of the funeral service. The cost for preparing a grave for two internments is set at £1,251, ensuring that every detail is managed with care.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Bandon Hill Cemetery Fees
£2858
Funeral Director Services
£2,595
Total Funeral Cost
£5453

Simple Cremation

Crematorium Fees
A Simple Cremation
A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.
Crematorium Fees
Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Washing and preparation for cremation
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel
Example Optional Extras
Private Chapel of Rest
Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing
Return Of The Ashes
Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you
Total
From £1,899

Could You Be Eligible For A DWP Funeral Expenses Payment?

The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily

Providing Cremations & Burials Across Selsdon & Nearby Areas

We proudly provide our services throughout Croydon, ensuring that our experienced team offers clear guidance on every aspect of your loved one’s funeral. Cremation costs begin at approximately £3,085 for full funeral director services at Lambeth Crematorium. Burial expenses can vary significantly, typically around £5,453 for a resident in Selsdon, inclusive of funeral director fees and a resident burial. We also facilitate arrangements for private cemeteries, ensuring you have options that suit your family’s needs. Whatever your choice may be, we are dedicated to planning it with care and expertise.

Cremation Funeral
from £3085
Burial Funeral
from £5453

Your family Arrangement Portal

Get access to a dedicated online portal to manage everything in one place — at your own pace and always guided by our team

Guided by our Team, every step

The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.

If you want to keep things Traditional...

For those seeking a traditional funeral in Selsdon, we assist in arranging services that resonate with timeless customs. Many families appreciate the respectfulness of formal attire and a black hearse, along with customary services in local churches like St Chad’s Church, South Norwood. We ensure that each detail reflects your family’s values and preferences, providing a dignified farewell that honors your loved one’s life.

If you want to go for something different...

We understand that many families desire a unique farewell, and our team is here to support personal touches for every funeral we arrange. From alternative venues in Selsdon to distinctive transportation options like a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, we’re committed to making your vision a reality. Whatever elements you want to include to celebrate a life well-lived, we will work with you closely to ensure they are incorporated meaningfully.

Selsdon Crematoriums & Cemeteries

Our team supports families across Croydon with a dedicated service that ensures all local cremation and burial venues are easily accessible. Notable facilities include the West Norwood Crematorium, Beckenham Cemetery (private), and Greenlawn Memorial Park. While burial costs can be complex, an approximate fee for a resident burial in Selsdon is around £5,724.00, while a non-resident burial is roughly £5,716.00, both requiring additional funeral director fees and grave leases starting from 50 years with a minimum of 1 internment. Cremation options are available, starting from just £490 for early morning services up to £1,000 for later services, plus funeral director charges. We take on the full coordination with your selected venues to expertly handle all aspects of bookings and logistics. Our experienced team provides detailed guidance about timings, facilities, and necessary local regulations, ensuring you can focus on your loved ones while we manage every important detail with care and respect, facilitating a seamless process on the day.

Small Team of Compassionate & Kind Funeral Arrangers

You can trust that a skilled, compassionate team is here to guide you through this difficult time. We are an independent, family-run business dedicated to delivering personal and attentive service during your time of need. Our goal is to simplify the arrangements for you, allowing you to focus on memorable moments with your loved ones.

Supporting Local Families, Just Like You

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Yes, we can help. As a local and family-run funeral directors, we possess extensive knowledge of the Selsdon area and its surroundings, including Croydon. Our familiarisation extends to local landmarks such as Addington Palace Golf Club, Croydon Minster, and community neighborhoods like Riddlesdown. Our compassionate team is here to assist in arranging every detail of a funeral, starting with the necessary bookings at Croydon Crematorium or Queens Road Cemetery. We also guide families in selecting suitable wake venues, such as Mr Fox, Croydon, ensuring comfort and warmth during this time. Furthermore, we can recommend reputable local florists and celebrants who are sensitive to the family’s needs. With the local demographic illustrating various faiths—Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Sikh, and Muslim— we collaborate closely with relevant faith organizations, including St Mary’s Catholic Church and St Chad’s Church in South Norwood. This ensures that each service is reflective and respectful of the traditions that hold deep meaning to you and your family. Whatever type of service you’re envisioning, be it traditional or personal, we are dedicated to tending to every important detail. Our in-depth knowledge of local logistics, transportation routes, and venue timings ensures a smooth, dignified experience on your loved one’s special day.
When someone passes away, it can be overwhelming to determine what steps to take. Our compassionate team is here to help guide you through the necessary actions. If the death occurs at home, you should contact a GP or NHS 111 to confirm the passing. In cases of hospital deaths, such as at Croydon University Hospital, the medical staff will provide the necessary documentation. Once you have the medical certificate, registering the death is next, typically at the Croydon registry office, which we can assist you with. When ready, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team, available around the clock, and we will bring your loved one into our care, clarify required documentation, and support you in funeral arrangements while ensuring everything is handled respectfully and gently.

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

We provide funeral director services throughout Selsdon and Croydon, including within Addington, Addiscombe, Coombe, Coulsdon, Forestdale, Kenley, New Addington, Norbury, Old Coulsdon, Purley, Riddlesdown, Sanderstead, Selhurst, Shirley, South Croydon, South Norwood, Thornton Heath, Upper Norwood, Waddon and Woodside. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral director in any other boroughs, including Kingston upon Thames, Lambeth, Merton, Richmond Upon Thames, Sutton and Wandsworth, then please get in touch.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

All paperwork and administrative processes taken care of

When a person dies, the paperwork, admin and everything you need to do can feel overwhelming. We are here to take some of the pressure off and to try and make everything as simple as possible. Our support includes: