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North Cray Funeral Home providing Trusted Independent Funerals

Losing someone is hard. We’re here to make things easier and simpler, so you can focus on your family at this difficult time. If you are looking for a compassionate independent funeral director in North Cray, please get in touch.

See Why North Cray Residents Trust Us

Families in North Cray and throughout the area place their trust in us due to our compassion, professionalism, and meticulous attention to detail. We have assisted hundreds of local families during their most challenging moments, providing reassurance and support every step of the way. Our reputation as a reliable funeral parlour stems from our sincere care and commitment to excellence, ensuring that you feel supported during this difficult time.

Established Independent funeral parlour in North Cray

At In Memory Of Life, we take pride in assisting families across North Cray and Bexley, including Abbey Wood, Albany Park, Barnehurst, and Barnes Cray. As a compassionate funeral parlour, we blend deep local knowledge and dignity to assist families during difficult times. Our team regularly helps with arrangements at the Beckenham Crematorium and Kemnal Park Cemetery (private). We can guide you in registering a death at the local Bexley registry office or finding suitable venues for wakes, such as The Golden Lion Bexleyheath or Premier Inn London Sidcup hotel. In a community filled with diverse faiths, we can respectfully liaise with local religious organizations like Christ Church Bexleyheath and Welling Evangelical Free Church to honor all traditions. Whatever your farewell wishes may be, we are dedicated to providing care and understanding.

Example Cremation Funeral Cost Near North Cray

Cremation At Bluebell Crematorium
At Bluebell Crematorium, cremation services are offered for a 30-minute service in the chapel from 9.15am to 9.45am for £750. Alternative timings and options at other crematoriums in the area are also available. For a complete list of local services, please click below.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Bluebell Crematorium
£750
Funeral Director Services
£2,695
Total Funeral Cost
£3345

Typical Cost of A Burial Funeral Near North Cray

Burial At Hillview Cemetery
For residents of Bexley, purchasing a grave at Hillview Cemetery is priced at £2,835, which includes a lease that lasts for 50 years. There are alternative options available, including private cemeteries. Click below to view all available options in your area.
The cemetery charges a fee for the preparation of a grave on the day of the funeral service. This fee is £1,134 for the preparation of the grave, accommodating up to 2 internments. It ensures that the resting place is ready and dignified for the deceased.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Hillview Cemetery Fees
£3969
Funeral Director Services
£2,595
Total Funeral Cost
£6564

Simple Cremation

Crematorium Fees
A Simple Cremation
A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.
Crematorium Fees
Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Washing and preparation for cremation
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel
Example Optional Extras
Private Chapel of Rest
Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing
Return Of The Ashes
Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you
Total
From £1,899

Could You Be Eligible For A DWP Funeral Expenses Payment?

The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily

North Cray Cremation & Burial Funerals

We provide support across Bexley and our knowledgeable team offers clear, local guidance to ensure every aspect is just right. All cremations can take place at Bluebell Crematorium, with prices starting at approximately £3,345 for funeral director services, whilst a burial is estimated to be around £6,564. If your loved one was not a resident, we also have options for private cemeteries, like Kemnal Park Cemetery.

Cremation Funeral
from £3345
Burial Funeral
from £6564

Your family Arrangement Portal

Get access to a dedicated online portal to manage everything in one place — at your own pace and always guided by our team

Guided by our Team, every step

The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.

If you want to keep things Traditional...

Many families in North Cray prefer a traditional funeral, featuring formal attire, a black hearse, and a respectful service adhering to age-old customs. Our team can assist with arrangements at local churches, such as Gateway Chapel, crematoriums, and cemeteries, ensuring that every detail is personal and dignified, respecting your family’s wishes.

If you want to go for something different...

We take pride in personalizing every funeral, helping families create services that truly reflect their loved one’s life. From selecting an alternative venue in North Cray to arranging unique transportation, such as a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, we focus on thoughtful details like themed flowers or music, ensuring every aspect is meaningful.

Local Crematoriums & Cemeteries Near North Cray

Our team supports families across Bexley with all local cremation and burial venues. This includes Bluebell Crematorium, Kemnal Park Cemetery (private) or Hillview Cemetery, which serve as dignified places for your loved ones. Burial costs vary, but you can expect to pay approximately £3,969.00 for a resident burial in North Cray. In contrast, non-resident burials typically cost £7,938.00, and these costs cover funeral director fees along with grave leases starting from 50 years and allowing for two internments. Alternatively, cremation services are available starting from £750 for an early morning service and £810 for later services, alongside funeral director costs. We work directly with your selected venue to manage bookings and logistics while providing clear guidance on timing and local regulations. Trust us to handle every detail, ensuring that the day is respectful and runs smoothly.

Small Team of Compassionate & Kind Funeral Arrangers

You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and attention to detail. As an independent, family-run service, we are dedicated to making this process as easy as possible so you can concentrate on what matters most during this time.

Supporting Local Families, Just Like You

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Yes, we can help with that. As a local, family-run funeral directors, we understand North Cray and the surrounding areas of Bexley. From Lesnes Abbey and Hall Place & Gardens to the community streets of North End, our team is here to assist you in arranging every aspect of a funeral. This includes making arrangements for services at Eltham Crematorium or Kemnal Park Cemetery (private) and supporting families who choose welcoming wake venues like Danson Stables. We recommend trusted local florists and celebrants who appreciate the sensitivities inherent in such occasions. Furthermore, we collaborate with faith organisations like Welling Evangelical Free Church, ensuring that every service respects the traditions that matter to you and your loved ones. Whether you’re organizing a traditional service or something more personal, we’ll take care of every detail, utilizing our extensive knowledge of the area—from transportation routes to venue timing—ensuring everything proceeds with dignity.
When someone dies, knowing what to do first can often be overwhelming, but we are here to guide you through every step of the process. If the death occurs at home, contact the GP or NHS 111 to ensure a doctor confirms the passing. If the death happens in a hospital, such as Queen Mary’s Hospital, the staff will issue the medical certificate and assist you with understanding what needs to happen next. Once the medical certificate is issued, it’s essential to register the death at your local office—usually the Bexley registry office for families in this area—and we can assist with booking an appointment or accompany you if needed. When you’re ready, please don’t hesitate to call us at any time, day or night. Our compassionate team will bring your loved one into our care, explain the required paperwork, guide you through funeral arrangements, and ensure everything is handled with the dignity and gentleness you deserve.

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

We provide funeral director services throughout North Cray and Bexley, including within Abbey Wood, Albany Park, Barnehurst, Barnes Cray, Belvedere, Bexleyheath, Blackfen, Blendon, Colyers, Crayford, Crook Log, Crossness, East Wickham, Erith, Falconwood, Foots Cray, Lamorbey, Lessness Heath, Longlands, North End, Northumberland Heath, Ruxley, Sidcup, Slade Green, Thamesmead, Upper Ruxley, Upton, Welling and West Heath. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral home in any other boroughs, including Bromley, Greenwich, Lewisham and Southwark, then please get in touch.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

All paperwork and administrative processes taken care of

When a person dies, the paperwork, admin and everything you need to do can feel overwhelming. We are here to take some of the pressure off and to try and make everything as simple as possible. Our support includes: