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Local Funeral Directors serving Abbey Wood & Nearby Areas

Losing someone is hard. We’re here to make things easier and simpler, so you can focus on your family at this difficult time. If you are looking for a local family-run funeral director in Abbey Wood, please get in touch.

See Why Abbey Wood Residents Trust Us

Families in Abbey Wood and throughout the area trust us for our compassion, professionalism, and attention to detail. We have supported hundreds of local families through some of life’s most challenging moments, providing reassurance and assistance at every step. Our reputation as a funeral parlour is built on care, reliability, and the comfort of knowing you are in capable hands.

Abbey Wood funeral parlour providing Family Funerals

At In Memory Of Life, we’re honored to support families in Abbey Wood and Bexley, including neighborhoods such as Albany Park, Barnehurst, Barnes Cray, and Belvedere. As an independent funeral service, we blend compassion and respect with local expertise. Our team assists families with services at Beckenham Crematorium and Kemnal Park Cemetery (private), guiding you through registering a death at the Bexley registry office or finding suitable wake venues like Tanyard Lane Bar & Kitchen. Understanding the diverse community, which includes various faiths and local religious organizations such as Our Lady of the Angels Catholic Church and London England Temple, we ensure that every tradition is honored during this significant time.

Example Cremation Funeral Cost Near Abbey Wood

Cremation At Bluebell Crematorium
At Bluebell Crematorium, cremation services are available for a 30-minute service in the chapel from 9.15am to 9.45am for £750. There are additional options for services at various times of the day and at other local crematoriums; please click below to view all local options.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Bluebell Crematorium
£750
Funeral Director Services
£2,695
Total Funeral Cost
£3345

Typical Cost of A Burial Funeral Near Abbey Wood

Burial At Hillview Cemetery
For residents of Bexley, it is possible to purchase a grave at Hillview Cemetery for £2,835, which includes a 50-year lease. Other options are also available, including private cemeteries; click below to view all options in your area.
The cemetery also charges a fee for the preparation of the grave on the day of the funeral. This service includes a fee of £1,134, which covers the preparation of the grave for up to 2 internments, ensuring everything is organized and ready for the service.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Hillview Cemetery Fees
£3969
Funeral Director Services
£2,595
Total Funeral Cost
£6564

Simple Cremation

Crematorium Fees
A Simple Cremation
A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.
Crematorium Fees
Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Washing and preparation for cremation
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel
Example Optional Extras
Private Chapel of Rest
Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing
Return Of The Ashes
Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you
Total
From £1,899

Could You Be Eligible For A DWP Funeral Expenses Payment?

The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily

Abbey Wood Cremation & Burial Funerals

Our services extend right across Bexley, providing clear guidance and recommendations from our experienced team to ensure that every detail is just right for the day. Cremation prices typically start at £3,345 for all funeral director services at local crematoriums, while a burial funeral may cost around £6,564, depending on residency and location. Choosing our services means you can have peace of mind knowing we are here to help.

Cremation Funeral
from £3345
Burial Funeral
from £6564

Your family Arrangement Portal

Get access to a dedicated online portal to manage everything in one place — at your own pace and always guided by our team

Guided by our Team, every step

The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.

If you want to keep things Traditional...

For those who desire a traditional funeral, many families in Abbey Wood opt for the time-honoured approach, complete with formal attire and respectful services. We assist with arrangements at local churches, such as Gateway Chapel, and ensure that every detail reflects your family’s wishes in a dignified manner.

If you want to go for something different...

We pride ourselves on personalizing every funeral and assisting families in creating a tribute that reflects their loved one’s life. This could involve selecting alternative venues in Abbey Wood, planning unique transportation options like a VW campervan, or adding personal touches such as themed flowers and music to truly honour their memory.

Crematoriums & Cemeteries Options For Abbey Wood

Our team supports families across Bexley with all local cremation and burial venues, including Bluebell Crematorium, Hillview Cemetery, or Kemnal Park Cemetery (private). Burial costs can be complex, however, you can expect to pay around £3,969.00 for a resident burial in Abbey Wood plus funeral director fees and £7,938.00 for a non-resident burial, both with grave leases lasting from 50 years, allowing for 2 internments. Alternatively, cremations are available from as low as £750 for early morning services or £810 for later sessions, plus funeral director services. We coordinate directly with your chosen location to manage bookings and logistics while providing clear guidance on timings, facilities, and local regulations. You can trust us to take care of every detail so that the day runs seamlessly and respectfully, honoring the memory of your loved one with the care they deserve.

Small Team of Compassionate & Kind Funeral Arrangers

You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and attention to detail. We’re independent and family-run, focusing on making the process as easy as possible. Our goal is for you to concentrate on what matters most during this time of need.

Supporting Local Families, Just Like You

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Yes, we can. As a local, family-run funeral directors, we know Abbey Wood and the surrounding areas of Bexley — from National Trust – Red House and Danson House / Bexley Register Office, to the community streets of Crook Log. Our team can help you arrange every aspect of a funeral, including bookings at Eltham Crematorium or Kemnal Park Cemetery (private) and we often help families choose welcoming wake venues such as Danson Stables. We can recommend trusted local florists and celebrants who understand the sensitivities of the occasion. Additionally, we work closely with faith organisations such as Welling Evangelical Free Church and Christ Church Bexleyheath, ensuring that every service is respectful of the traditions that matter to you. Whether you’re arranging a traditional service or something more personal, we’ll take care of every detail, using our knowledge of the local area to ensure everything runs smoothly and with dignity, allowing you to grieve knowing all arrangements are in capable hands.
When someone dies, it can be difficult to know what to do first, but we’re here to guide you through every step. If the death occurs at home, contact the GP or NHS 111 to arrange for a doctor to confirm the passing. If it occurs in a hospital like Queen Mary’s Hospital, the staff will provide the medical certificate and guide you on the next steps. Once this is issued, you’ll need to register the death at your local office, which, for most in this area, is the local Bexley registry office. We can assist with booking the appointment or accompanying you if needed. Once you feel ready, call us at any time. Our team will bring your loved one into our care, explain necessary paperwork, and guide you through the funeral arrangements with compassion, dignity, and the gentle pace you need.

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

We provide funeral director services throughout Abbey Wood and Bexley, including within Albany Park, Barnehurst, Barnes Cray, Belvedere, Bexleyheath, Blackfen, Blendon, Colyers, Crayford, Crook Log, Crossness, East Wickham, Erith, Falconwood, Foots Cray, Lamorbey, Lessness Heath, Longlands, North Cray, North End, Northumberland Heath, Ruxley, Sidcup, Slade Green, Thamesmead, Upper Ruxley, Upton, Welling and West Heath. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral home in any other boroughs, including Bromley, Greenwich, Lewisham and Southwark, then please get in touch.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

All paperwork and administrative processes taken care of

When a person dies, the paperwork, admin and everything you need to do can feel overwhelming. We are here to take some of the pressure off and to try and make everything as simple as possible. Our support includes: