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Local Family-Run Funeral Directors serving Surbiton & Nearby Areas

Losing someone is hard. We’re here to make things easier and simpler, so you can focus on your family at this difficult time. If you are looking for a local family undertaker in Surbiton, please get in touch.

Over 750 local families trust us

Families in Surbiton and the surrounding areas rely on our compassion, professionalism, and meticulous attention to detail. We have supported hundreds of local families through some of their hardest moments, providing reassurance and encouragement every step of the way. Our reputation as a trusted funeral home stands on our commitment to care, reliability, and ensuring you feel supported throughout this process.

Surbiton funeral home providing Local Independent Funerals

At In Memory Of Life, we take pride in being there for families across Surbiton and Kingston upon Thames, which includes Chessington, Kingston, Malden Rushett, and New Malden. We offer a dignified approach to funeral arrangements, combining trusted expertise and genuine compassion. Our knowledgeable team assists families in planning memorial services at Kingston Crematorium and Kingston Cemetery, providing support for registering deaths at the local Kingston upon Thames registry office or finding suitable wake venues like The Mill or Kingston Rowing Club. With diverse communities in Kingston, including significant numbers from various faiths, we work closely with local religious organisations, including All Saints Church and Saint Agatha’s Catholic Church, ensuring that all traditions are honored with dignity. Whatever your needs, our team is here to guide you with empathy and care.

Example Cremation Funeral Cost Near Surbiton

Cremation At North East Surrey Crematorium
At North East Surrey Crematorium, cremation services can be arranged with a 20-minute service in the chapel starting from £350 for an early morning slot at 9.20 am. Additionally, services are available at varied times, as well as at other crematoriums in the surrounding area. Please click below for a complete list of options.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
North East Surrey Crematorium
£350
Funeral Director Services
£2,695
Total Funeral Cost
£2945

Typical Cost of A Burial Funeral Near Surbiton

Burial At Kingston Cemetery
Residents of Kingston upon Thames can purchase a grave at Kingston Cemetery for £2,830, which includes a lease for 50 years. There are also other options available through private cemeteries — please click below to explore all options in your vicinity.
The cemetery also charges a fee for the preparation of the grave on the day of the funeral, which includes £2,150 for the preparation of the grave for 2 internments. Please ensure to account for this fee when planning your services.
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Dressing including a courier to collect clothes from your home
  • Viewing your loved one within our private chapel of rest if requested
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the funeral ceremony, flowers, music requests, order of service, visual tributes and any thing else that you may request
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
Funeral Conductor
Your Funeral Conductor is our senior person in charge to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. They will greet you directly at the crematorium.
Traditional Funeral Hearse
A traditional black hearse, meeting you directly at the crematorium for the funeral service at this location only
Example Optional Extras
Funeral Flowers
We can help you to choose beautiful flowers to adorn your loved one’s coffin and hearse. All of our flower arrangements are soruced and prepared by our local florist
Funeral Officiant
Please let us know if you would like help finding a suitable officiant to lead the service. This could be a non religious officiant, known as a celebrant, or a religious leader of your choosing
Order of Service Booklets
We can help you to prepare and design order of service booklets to be printed for the funeral. You can view our designs below and would just need to send us your photos and contentt
Kingston Cemetery Fees
£4980
Funeral Director Services
£2,595
Total Funeral Cost
£7575

Simple Cremation

Crematorium Fees
A Simple Cremation
A simple cremation, also known as a direct cremation, means that there would be no funeral service on the day. Instead, our team will take your loved one directly to the crematorium and accompany them into the chapel, typically early in the morning.
Crematorium Fees
Our fixed price includes the fee from the crematorium for the cremation to take place
Our Services Included

Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:

  • Collection from their current resting place in our private ambulance
  • Respectful care and preparation for the funeral in our mortuary facilities
  • Washing and preparation for cremation
  • Care for their personal effects following your instructions

We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:

  • Advice and guidance from the first call including at evenings & weekends
  • Liaison with all third parties including crematoria, cemeteries & doctors
  • Completion of all paperwork and administrative processes for the funeral
  • Coordination of the return of your loved one’s ashes if you choose this option
The Morpeth
A simple yet high quality wood effect coffin, polished to a high standard and fitted with a personalised name plate
On the day of the cremation, your loved one will be transferred to the crematorium in our specialist vehicle and accompanies by our team into the crematorium chapel
Example Optional Extras
Private Chapel of Rest
Our simple cremation does not include a chapel of rest viewing with your loved one. It is possible to add this as an optional extra item to your quote and to spend up to 2 hours in our private chapel on a day of your choosing
Return Of The Ashes
Your loved one’s ashes will be available for you to collect from the crematorium around 2 days following the funeral date. If requested, we can collect on you behalf and hand deliver these back to you
Total
From £1,899

Could You Be Eligible For A DWP Funeral Expenses Payment?

The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily

Surbiton Cremation & Burial Funerals

Our services cover the entirety of Kingston upon Thames, where our experienced team provides local guidance to ensure everything is correctly arranged. Cremation prices start at approximately £2,945 for an all-inclusive funeral director package at North East Surrey Crematorium. Burial costs are part of a more complex structure, averaging around £7,575, including funeral director services. If your loved one did not reside in the borough, alternative paths such as private cemeteries are available. Whatever you decide, we’re here to assist you in carefully planning the right farewell.

Cremation Funeral
from £2945
Burial Funeral
from £7575

Your family Arrangement Portal

Get access to a dedicated online portal to manage everything in one place — at your own pace and always guided by our team

Guided by our Team, every step

The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.

If you want to keep things Traditional...

In Surbiton, many families choose traditional funerals that align with long-established customs. We can facilitate arrangements at local churches such as Cornerstone Church Kingston – The Hub, as well as at crematoriums and cemeteries, making sure every element of the service is personal and dignified, staying true to your family’s preferences.

If you want to go for something different...

We are committed to personalising every funeral, helping families craft services that truly reflect the essence of their loved one. This may include unique venues in Surbiton, special transportation like a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, or special touches such as themed flowers or music. Whatever your vision, our team is dedicated to making it a reality.

Crematoriums & Cemeteries Options For Surbiton

Our team supports families across Kingston upon Thames with all local cremation and burial venues, including North East Surrey Crematorium, Surbiton Cemetery, or Kingston Cemetery. Burial costs are complex; however, you can expect to pay around £4,980.00 for a resident burial in Surbiton plus funeral director fees or £7,470.00 for a non-resident burial plus funeral director fees, both with grave leases starting from 50 years and allowing for 2 internments. Alternatively, cremation services are available from £350 for an early morning service or £700 for a later time, in addition to funeral director services. We coordinate directly with any chosen location to manage the necessary bookings and logistics, ensuring you receive clear guidance on timings, available facilities, and any relevant local regulations. You can trust us to care for every detail, so the day runs seamlessly and with the respect it deserves.

Small Team of Compassionate & Kind Funeral Arrangers

You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and attention to detail. Being independent and family-run means our focus is aligned with what truly matters: making the process as easy as possible for you, allowing you to concentrate on honoring your loved one.

Supporting Local Families, Just Like You

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.

Yes, we can assist with that. As a local, family-run funeral directors, we possess extensive knowledge of Surbiton and the surrounding areas of Kingston upon Thames. Our compassionate team will help you arrange all aspects of a funeral, including bookings at Kingston Crematorium or Surbiton Cemetery, and we frequently assist families in selecting suitable wake venues such as the DoubleTree by Hilton London Kingston Upon Thames. Additionally, we can recommend trusted local florists and celebrants who are sensitive to the nature of the occasion. With a diverse community comprising Christian (Total 4381, 40%), Buddhist (Total 123, 1%), Hindu (Total 351, 3%), Sikh (Total 76, 1%), and Muslim (Total 602, 6%) populations, we work closely with faith organizations like All Saints Church, Kingston upon Thames. This ensures that every service respects the traditions that matter to you and your family. Whether you prefer a traditional ceremony or something more personalized, we are dedicated to managing every detail with care, utilizing our local knowledge of transport routes and venue timings so that everything proceeds smoothly and with dignity.
When someone passes away, it can be overwhelming to know how to proceed. If the death occurs at home, notify the GP or NHS 111 to confirm the passing. If it takes place in a hospital, like Kingston Hospital, the staff will assist with the necessary medical certificates. Following this, the next step is to register the death at your local office, which is typically at the Kingston upon Thames registry office. Our team is available to help you book an appointment or accompany you if needed. When you’re ready, please contact us anytime — our team will assist in bringing your loved one into our care. We’ll guide you on the required paperwork and help orient you through funeral planning, ensuring that everything is conducted compassionately, respectfully, and at your preferred pace.

No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.

We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.

Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.

You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.

The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below

We provide funeral director services throughout Surbiton and Kingston upon Thames, including within Chessington, Kingston, Malden Rushett, New Malden and Tolworth. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral director in any other boroughs, including Croydon, Lambeth, Merton, Richmond Upon Thames, Sutton and Wandsworth, then please get in touch.

Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.

All paperwork and administrative processes taken care of

When a person dies, the paperwork, admin and everything you need to do can feel overwhelming. We are here to take some of the pressure off and to try and make everything as simple as possible. Our support includes: