Families in Tolworth and throughout Tolworth trust us for our compassion, professionalism, and attention to detail. We’ve helped hundreds of local families through some of life’s most difficult moments, providing reassurance and support every step of the way. Our reputation as a funeral service is built on care, reliability, and the comfort of knowing you are in capable hands.
At In Memory Of Life, we take pride in serving families throughout Tolworth and Kingston upon Thames, including Chessington, Kingston, Malden Rushett, and New Malden. As a family-owned funeral home, we blend compassion, dignity, and trusted local knowledge to support the community. Our team is well-versed in helping families with arrangements at North East Surrey Crematorium and Surbiton Cemetery. We guide you through registering a death at the Kingston upon Thames registry office, alongside finding suitable wake venues like The Mill or Kingston Rowing Club. Serving a diverse community with varying faiths—including Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Sikh, and Muslim—we liaise with local religious organisations like All Saints Church and Saint Agatha’s Catholic Church, ensuring that all traditions are honored respectfully. Whatever your farewell preference, we are here to assist with care.
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
Our experienced team will compassionately care for your loved one including:
We are here to make the funeral arrangement as stress-free and simple for you as possible. We will help you with:
The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) offers a Funeral Expenses Payment to help cover essential costs such as burial or cremation fees, travel expenses, and up to £1,000 for other funeral expenses like flowers or a coffin. You must be the person responsible for paying for the funeral, and you must be eligible for benefits or working tax credits to apply. Our team can help you check your eligibility quickly and easily
At In Memory Of Life, we’re proud to care for families throughout Tolworth and Kingston upon Thames, including Chessington, Kingston, Malden Rushett and New Malden. As a Local Family undertakers, we combine compassion, dignity, and trusted local expertise with a deep knowledge of the community. Our team regularly supports families arranging services at North East Surrey Crematorium and Kingston Cemetery. We provide guidance on registering a death at Kingston upon Thames registry office or finding welcoming wake venues such as O’Neill’s Kingston Upon Thames or Glenmore House. Our local community is enriched by various faiths, and we liaise with local religious organisations such as St Ann’s R C Church and St George’s Greek Orthodox Church to honour traditions with respect. We are here to help with care and understanding, whatever your wishes may be.
The portal is a space for you to stay organised and updated throughout the funeral arrangement, but you’re never on your own. You will be looked after by Harriet, Nick or Megan who will guide you through every decision, answer any question, and ensure everything is taken care of. Whether you prefer to use the portal or speak with us directly, we are always just a call away.
Many families in Tolworth prefer a traditional funeral, complete with formal attire, a black hearse, and a respectful service in keeping with time-honoured customs. Our dedicated team can assist with all arrangements, including services at local churches like Cornerstone Church Kingston – The Hub, as well as coordinating services at crematoriums and cemeteries, ensuring that every aspect feels personal, dignified, and entirely true to your family’s wishes.
We take great pride in personalising every funeral and helping families create something that reflects their loved one’s life and personality. This could mean choosing an alternative venue in Tolworth, arranging unique transportation such as a VW campervan or horse-drawn carriage, or adding thoughtful touches like themed flowers or music. Whatever you have in mind, our team will work closely with you to make it possible.
Our team proudly supports families across Kingston upon Thames with all matters related to local cremation and burial venues, which include Kingston Crematorium, Surbiton Cemetery, and Kingston Cemetery. Burial costs are multifaceted; however, a resident burial in Tolworth generally costs around £4,980.00, excluding funeral director fees, whereas a non-resident burial amounts to approximately £7,470.00, also excluding director fees. Both options come with grave leases starting from 50 years and permit up to 2 internments. Alternatively, cremation services can start from £350 for an early morning slot or from £700 for later times, plus the respective funeral director services. Our team coordinates directly with chosen venues to manage all bookings and associated logistics. We provide clear, comprehensive guidance on timing, available facilities, and local regulations, ensuring that every detail is handle meticulously so your day unfolds seamlessly and respectfully.
You’ll be supported by a small, experienced team of funeral arrangers who lead with kindness and meticulous attention to detail, ensuring each family’s needs are addressed compassionately. As an independent, family-run establishment, our primary focus is to alleviate any burden during this challenging time, allowing you to concentrate on what matters most.
Yes, absolutely you can spend time with your loved one before the funeral. We understand how important it is for families to have this opportunity for closure and private viewings can be arranged at one our chapel of rests or another location of your choosing, such as your Church or even your home. Our team will work closely with you to ensure that this experience is private, comfortable, and respectful so that you can say your final goodbye before. the funeral. Please let us know your wishes, and we will do everything we can to accommodate them.
No, we never request a deposit or any upfront payment before the funeral takes place. We understand the financial and emotional pressures families face during this time and aim to ease those burden by providing you with plenty of time to make your choices and secure the source of the funds. Our services are designed to provide flexibility, and we will clearly outline all costs so you can plan with confidence and clarity.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, we offer flexible payment plans to help make funeral arrangements more manageable. We understand the financial challenges that can arise during this time and strive to provide options that suit your needs.
We do not require a deposit which will provide you with the time to investigate various sources of funding including a grant from the department of work and pensions. We also partner with Funeral Safe who can provide you with Funeral Finance to split the cost of the funeral into monthly instalments to be paid over a long period of time. Our team will work closely with you to find an option that aligns with your circumstances, ensuring you can focus on honoring your loved one without added financial stress.
Yes we accept and will even help to support you through an application for a government DWP funeral grant. We understand how critical this funding can be for people struggling to meet the cost of the funeral and always try to be as flexible as possible, including no requirements for a deposit or upfront payments.
You can read more about the DWP funeral grant and to find out if you are eligible on the government website here https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments
At In Memory of Life, we offer a variety of eco-friendly funeral options for those who wish to minimize their environmental impact. These include biodegradable coffins, natural burial grounds, and environmentally conscious modes of transport including a bicycle hearse. We also provide guidance on reducing waste and carbon emissions throughout the funeral process. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a meaningful farewell that aligns with your values and commitment to sustainability.
The cost of a funeral depends on the services and arrangements you choose. At In Memory of Life, we provide a range of options to suit different preferences and budgets, from simple services to more elaborate ceremonies. We are committed to transparency and will provide a detailed breakdown of costs upfront, with no hidden fees. Our team is here to help you create a meaningful farewell that meets your needs and respects your financial situation. You can view all of the options and build your own quote below
We provide funeral director services throughout Tolworth and Kingston upon Thames, including within Chessington, Kingston, Malden Rushett, New Malden and Surbiton. We also work right across London, so if you are looking for a funeral parlour in any other boroughs, including Croydon, Lambeth, Merton, Richmond Upon Thames, Sutton and Wandsworth, then please get in touch.
Yes, at In Memory of Life, you can plan ahead and pay for your funeral in advance. Pre-planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about your arrangements, relieve financial burdens for your family, and lock in current pricing for services. Our team will work with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, and we offer flexible payment options to suit your budget. Contact us to learn more about how pre-planning can bring peace of mind.
